It covers a wide range of subjects, but I don't to make 100 different posts...

Point 1: Where can I find the complete teaching of Tyler Durden? He doesn't have any books written as far as I know, but I'd like to hear what he has to say...

Point 2: Often, people will ask "what do I do?" It has been said on here that girls don't care what you do for work. I have not found that to be the case. I find that they do. This is what I do.... I am in the process of convincing a private lender to lend me about $75,000 so that I can build a house from scratch and then sell it for hopefully $140,000. Then, I will do this in other areas of the country that have higher home values so that I can profit more. I spend time researching home values across the country to know where this is and researching land to build on. I will do this several times until I have enough money to put down on a hotel. Then, I will use the income from this hotel to secure loans for another hotel, and then another and another, until I have 1000s of hotels and a hotel empire the size of the Hilton's or larger. I spent time looking at financial statements of hotels and other high-density commercial properties. I can usually cut costs by being more intelligent than the previous owner (I don't pay lawyers or accountants, for example).

Also, I'm in the process of inventing a product that detoxes your lungs from damage from cigarette smoke. It's main ingredient is the mineral Zeolite which has qualities that absorbs heavy metals. It also have various other minerals and herbs in it that have been shown to absorb metals and tar. I am in the process of finding a place to manufacture this in small quantities and getting licensed. I will probably hire people to sell it door-to-door as well as try to sell it to retail stores, even those as large as Wal-Mart and CVS. That idea went from idea to product in about one week.

In 2-3 years, I will be taking out loans to buy exotic cars and renting them out. For example, you can buy a Lamborghini Aventador for $7,500 for the loan and the insurance and rent it out for $3,000/day to tourists and theoretically (on paper) profit $400,000-$500,000 per year for one car. Then, I will buy 1000s of cars and start these businesses in every tourist town in the country.

Also, when I am really old and I have a TON of money from my hotels, I will start taking out loans to construct nuclear power plants or maybe geothermal plants. I also might invest in farms.

I also want to start a modeling agency for obvious reasons. Imagine if I could spend my whole life fucking models. Omg.

So what should I say when someone asks "what do I do?" Lol.

Point #3: I've been back on good old FaceBook lately. One day, I started messaging hot girls that "I might know" (had a mutual friend or a friend of a friend), and wouldn't you know, some hot ones wrote back. I want to know how to fix my profile to make it awesome. How can I portray high social value on a FaceBook profile? I also joined groups like "Gym Girls" and other model groups because that way, I can message the girls on there. I need to fix my profile and make it awesome somehow.

Point #4: What is the PERFECT lifestyle? Does such a thing exist? Does it involve hanging out and screwing hot chicks? I think so. Preferably with lots of money, nice cars, and vacations?

Point #5: I posted a picture of what I dress in now. I changed the white suit jacket for the standard black suit jacket, but I kept the Gucci shades. I think they're awesome. I think that is an appropriate way to peacock without looking too goofy. I went out in the white suit jacket one night and "felt" eyes on me (whatever that means). I think the white comes across as a little try-too-hard, but you do need to stick out and I do love the glasses and plan to buy some Versace's and Prada's next time I can afford it. I just think they're cool. I went to Winghouse "dress to impress" and voted for myself yesterday. Lol.

Point #6: I have noticed that a lot of people pay attention to me when I am "talking business" at a bar, whether that be talking to people about the best way to insure a Lamborghini for commercial rental or taking bids from contractors, talking to architects, etc. I need to know how to capitalize on this interest.

Point #7: I realized that I am a nerd. I hadn't really thought of myself as a nerd in a while. I am smart. I like science and know how to research minerals and stuff like that. That's okay. I have no problem with that. I think a lot of girls like "nerds" as long as they also have good social skills and personality. I think that "nerd" (or just being smart) is an obvious sign of high value. I have a makeshift science lab in my house right now to concoct my cigarette detox pill and I write down measurements, etc. I am completely okay with this and actually like it. It's good that I realized this about myself. All this "pickup" stuff has caused me to take a closer look at myself.

Point #8: I was getting my hair cut and the interaction I had with the hair dresser struck me as significant. She was married with a child (or children, I forget). She spends at least 40 hours per week at her job and says that her clients are some of the people that are closest to her. She talks with them about their family, etc. Her husband also works equal amounts of hours at a bank. I started telling her about my business ambitions that are about to take off and I'm pretty sure she was impressed. She kept complimenting me on my eyes and my thick hair, etc. The point is, her life seemed so simple. Like it was just a series of facts that I have to get down. What are these simple facts that make up what a person is?

-What do they do for work?
-How old are they?
-Do they have children?
-What is their gender?
-Are they currently involved in a relationship?

Why it struck me was that it made me think that I am perhaps overthinking the whole thing and these "female" things are not quite as complicated as I may have thought. How do I use this knowledge to get my dick in their mouth? Lol.

Btw.... I just had an awesome idea on how to have high social value on FaceBook..... I'm going to start a modeling agency and invite all the hot girls I know, including ones from other modeling agencies.

"Hi, I'm _____. I run "______" Modeling. You have a really nice look. We would love to have you as part of our company."... or something like that. That way, I could meet all kinds of hot chicks.

Oh yea, and another thing to add to my post.... I went out the other night, and there was a 36 year old lawyer making out with girls in their early 20's.... so, there is A LOT of time to improve on this.... it doesn't just "end" when you turn 30 or something like that.....

Girls ask you what you do because either they're just making conversation, or they want you to qualify yourself. The fact of the matter is, girls will be just as attracted to a doctor as they will to a bank robber or a McDonald's worker, if they're attracted initially. Your job isn't going to make more than about 2% difference lol. If a girl wants a little fun, she won't give a flying fuck how much money you've got. If a girl wants to marry you, she also won't give a fuck. It might be good for the whole "provider" thing... but that has been proven in many studies to be the SECOND most attractive personality type, generally. First varies from woman to woman, but second was almost always the provider. You know, the boring guy she can settle down with. The safe option.

Tyler is probably one of the worst PUA coaches for you to check out. You're already dark enough and should stay away from Tyler and Julien. You'd do well to pay more attention to the likes of: Adam Lyons, Gambler (Richard La Ruina) and Corey Wayne. If you want infield material then look up SashaDaygame. Don't read too many books - go out and talk to girls instead, but you need to work on your main sticking point: your false confidence. Every time I bring this up I feel like I'm being a dick, but it's like you expect people to view you above them because of something that hasn't even happened yet. I'm not questioning if it'll happen, cause I believe that you can do almost anything you put your mind to... but not everyone does. It's easy to say you're going to be rich, I could say I'm going to be rich.

Your dress sense is good, though. Good job.

The perfect lifestyle isn't something anybody can really give you specific advice on. The perfect lifestyle would be to have everything you want, and still have goals and ambition for something more. For one person, that's loads of money and women... for another it's a roof over their head and a family.

Keep up the good work, but don't make the common mistake of getting caught up in reading rather than doing. Tone down the arrogance, and try to force yourself to do some cold approaches without even once mentioning money or what you do. If they ask, keep it vague and fire a question back.

Oh and no it doesn't end when you turn 30 lol. Some of the best guys on this forum are ~30

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What did you think of the FaceBook part of the question? Do you think I should take my mom off of it? I think I should. I just took my grandma off of it because she told me to "watch my language." Lol. Nothing more embarrassing in front of a hot model than your grandmother telling you to watch your language.

I'm glad you don't think the dress is too try hard, especially the glasses, because I love it. There are places where you NEED to stick out of the crowd. There are lots of people even wearing suit jackets, so a white suit jacket and some Gucci shades are necessary to be the best-dressed guy there. A polo shirt might as well be a mustard-stained shirt to me at this point. I think I am the best-dressed guy in a 1000 mile radius. I just bought a "wine red" velvet blazer. I can't wait till it gets here. I'm gonna ask girls to rub it. (if I have the balls).

On the topic of something you said in another post. You said you think I lack respect for women. I think I may have lacked female role models growing up. That is something the last girl that I talked to for any significant amount of time said. I know they are good at keeping people safe and healthy (in theory). I think that has something to do with evolution and our tribal upbringing.

I always sit at home and think of all the things I would say if I had the balls. Then, I get out there and think.... I would just feel retarded if I said that.

I went out for a little bit today and I didn't see a single girl that I thought would be worth my time to invest in. Why would I bring myself down to pay attention to her life when I have so much going for myself? How would it be worth it to me? The only way is if she had money to invest in my business ventures. Lol.

It's kind of harsh to start removing your family from Facebook. Just hide your posts from them, lol.

Yea, that thread got locked because I was "off topic" (I actually wasn't, I think the mod just didn't read it properly)

When you say girls aren't worthy and all of that... are you justifying your approach anxiety and blaming it on them? Because you should be treating all women the same, playfully bantering with them all.

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Don't. Tyler is an absolute tool. You read models didn't you? That's enough.
Dude, what do you actually do? I think I've read about 40 of your "get rich" ideas. Do you actually do something in the meanwhile? Like work?

Anyway, to answer whether or not girls care what you do, they do. An educated, quality, hot woman will not go out with a bartender/waiter/taxi driver 99% of the times. He's not in her demographic. It's not the actual job that will bother her, it's what being over 21 and a cab driver denotes about who you are. Would an ambitious man settle for fairing people around town as a means to make a living?
That doesn't mean she can't be attracted to him. She can. It just means she most likely won't date him. Women live in abundance. She knows an equally attractive man is just around the corner. And he's probably an engineer.
Again, it's not the actual job. It's what the job communicates about who you are.
Then again if she's an McDonalds employee, she probably won't expect you to be a doctor. But you've read models, so you should understand the concept of demographics and dating on your own level.

Yeah, and I'm in the process of creating a smartphone app that will make me a $1.000.000 over night. Who cares? Everyone has ideas. There's no point in speaking about them until you've actually materialized them into success.
Same shit as above.
You really have it all figured out don't you? Life is not linear. If you honestly expect it to unfold the way you've got it pictured in your head you're gonna be living through a lot of dissapointment.
What you actually do. Your actually job. You're not a hotel chain CEO, you're not a modeling agency director nor an inventor. You have ideas, you don't have results. So the answer to that question is your real occupation, if you have one.

Use tinder for that. An awesome profile is one that has very few, if any selfies. And pictures of you doing various activities with various people.
It's different for everyone. The perfect lifestyle is the lifestyle that makes you happy. My honest opinion is that you get little to no pussy. Which is ok, that makes up 90% of this forum. I say that because you put immense value on "fucking hot women". When you'll actually get to the point of fucking hot women you'll realize that while it's great, it's nothing to make a life purpose out of.
Peacocking is a retarded concept. Take a look at guys when you head out. You'll realize almost all of them look dress the same. All you need is a little sense of style and you'll already be standing out without wearing ridiculous flashy clothes.

Bit of brutal honesty headed your way. Your white suit jacket attire is just bad.
For once, NEVER button the bottom suit button.
Secondly, jacket is too large. You can see it in the shoulders among other things. Size down.
Third, nothing matches with anything. You have 4 colors on you. If you wanna be all fashion, look things up. Generally speaking you should almost never be wearing more than 3 different colours.
You wanna match your shoes with you top. Either the jacket or the shirt.
You also don't wanna be wearing that kind of casual jeans if you're planning on going dress shirt and suit jacket.
I could go on but you probably get the point.
You need to first distinguish whether it's interest or the eye roll look. I personally roll my eyes at the idea of hearing someone talking about shit like that in a bar.
A "nerd" is someone who's heavily into fantasy and video games. Liking science and "smart" things in general is a sign of intelligence, not a sign of nerdiness.
I'll give you that one. You're overthinking this whole thing to extents I've rarely seen before. People are complex. There's no "simple facts" that will ever define them.
The list you've mentioned is made of small nothings that may or may not provide relevant info. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't. Overtime you'll develop an intrinsic ability of reading people. That comes with practice.

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What do I actually do? Subsist off income as an RV park manager.
But I spend most of my time planning these other things. Talking to
architects, etc. And I just made the prototype of my detox pill so
I will begin to manufacture it shortly. It went from idea to reality in 4 days.
And I actually did just start a modeling agency page on FaceBook and put ads advertising it.

I do match my shoes to suit jacket, but I can't exactly wear white shoes with a white jacket.

What do you think of the almost $200 glasses? I like them. I think they're AWESOME actually and I'm
buying more of other brands.

Where do I get good designer jeans? I know those jeans are a bit lacking.

As far as people being "complex," are you sure? Are you absolutely positive that this is
the case? Are you sure that these simple facts don't make up the majority of what a person
is? What is complex that is not included in these facts? Please explain this to me.

Don't most people just go to whatever their job is 40+ hours per week, maybe have a group of friends, and hopefully not (for my sake) have a relationship or kids, etc. Then, it's just.... how old are they? where were they raised? what is their ethnicity? what is their name?

I think the best thing to do is to approach people as if this doesn't matter and you already "know" it or just don't care.

Most important part of this thread: STAY AWAY FROM TYLER

he has some fantastic material, but it's be a bad decision for you to focus on him. I've heard great reviews about Models, so I'll say you should read that. I don't think for one second that it'll be enough on its own though... I think Corey Wayne's book is essential, to stop you just becoming a 1 trick pony pick up artist like 90% of the advanced guys on this forum. Read those 2 books 10-15 times each. The reason I say 10-15 times is because the human brain only retains 7-10% of what it reads. Reading a book once doesn't do much for you - I've read How to Win Friends and Influence People twice... but if I read it again now it'd seem new to me. I read Corey Wayne's book 6 and a half times and it was still all new to me. I can't be bothered to read it again yet though, not with how much pick up and relationship material I've already read.

You could learn a bit from R.C, too. If he says anything about getting the initial interaction and getting laid... it's probably good. Infact I'll PM you about something, Redstar.

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Glasses are way too big for your face and make you look like a gay art-house goon.

At the end of the day it doesnt matter much what you read, if you aren't going out there and getting real experience its all for not.


Real experience trumps reading any book, and if you have half a brain u'll eventually 'get it' on your own.


As for all your endeavours, who's to say if they're possible or not, that comes down to you to a large extent. That said, I get the strong sense you over-think things (aka paralysis analysis) having to know the minutia of detail in everything you do - and that can be your worst enemy often times. It can in fact have catastrophic effects if your head is too far in the clouds and all you do is read things; the years will go by and you won't be any further to where you are now.

I am wondering if you are on the autism spectrum, or have a bit of bipolar (I don't mean that as a diss, rather as an observation from the content of your posts and heavy rig-a-maro and grandiose ideas).

The singularity mindset can grossly impede you in your communication with others. I am wondering if how you are on here is how you engage with others. If you have that finite attention it CAN be used well with others if you focus on what interests them rather than going on what makes you so interesting with that self directed focus. It makes you sound like you're giving a monologue and people nod off quickly wanting to bail from the convo.

I would suggest to get in touch with yourself, get out of your head so-to-speak, and into your body. Feel your way through things a bit more which will be a bit of a challenge at first because u'll want to revert right back into your mind. This would likely go a long way in making you more personable and relatable to others and in the process make you more attractive.

I do have bipolar. What makes you think autism?

The glasses aren't supposed to fit nicely. It doesn't matter if they're too big. That's kind of the point. Just to stick out.

The business ideas will work. I can adapt and change to what works. But this isn't a business forum and I don't want to get off topic.

I take notes while I read, so I can retain it.

It's that finite linear focus I see often with bipolar individuals, typically those with bipolar 2, and I am wondering if rather than having it impede your 'game' that if there's a more proactive way of using it to your advantage instead of getting caught up all the analysis.

I'm sure I could, but what made you day autism?

You know what's funny is that if a girl was telling me this, I'd be like, "shut up bitch, you're not a fucking doctor."

I'm trained to see these things. As for autism spectrum there's a deficiency in perspective taking, but particularly that similar linear focus seen with bipolar people. Figured bipolar was more likely the case.

Maybe I do have autism. I'm not going to rule it out. I also have something else that I will only tell you if you PM me.