Here's my stats.

Women Status Since April 2015

Women Approached: 14
Times Filtered: 14
Times Friend Zoned: 4
Numbers Collected: 7
Women Dated: 1
Women Bedded: 0

It seems I've hit a "dead end" moment, kind of like how a swimmer runs out of oxygen. This isn't a confidence issue, but because I've been doing this for this long and haven't gotten a single lay, I'm feeling a little bored right now. I just walked into a club last night, and I couldn't really approach due to this dead end feeling I'm having. Women ARE looking at me and giving me attention still. Has anyone felt this way in the game, and what is a good fix to it? Are my approaches too low?

Stick a zero on the end of 14 then you we can talk about a real...dead end.

That's like lifting weights 12 different times and moaning why you are not huge. Put the the time in and you might get laid.

I'm very confident you will get laid before 140. (As long as you're not sabotaging yourself to prove me wrong)

i got my 1st lay around 100-200 approaches and 30-40 phone numbers and was actually trying.

14 approaches in 5 months = 2.8 approaches a month. That's not what is required to be good at this

"Practising for 5 months" lol

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Dead end? You've hit no such thing. You haven't gone far enough to hit a dead end yet lol.

At least you've done some approaches though. Repetition is the mother of skill. More approaches, then come back.

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Should I approach women for no reason? I'm only approaching when either my curiosity light flashes, or her curiosity light flashes. My studies have said that curiosity leads to attraction. Another reason why my approaches are low, is because most all this time, I've been studying instead of practicing.

Should I approach women for no reason? I'm following this map of interaction:

Curiosity -> Attraction -> Rapport -> Seduction.

You should approach everyone. If you feel like making it easier to approach, then go approach old men and talk to them, make small talk. Dont just approach hot women.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

Plenty of attractive girls. Are you only approaching the unicorns only?

Be realistic. 14 is not enough. Especially for cold approach. Less studying. More doing.

You think too much, you're busy with statistics, percentages and structures. How has that worked out?

You expect to seducing playmates with 20 approaches???? Come on man. You seem like a smart dude. But come to planet earth

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I remember you from this thread: viewtopic.php?f=6&t=192029&p=922510#p922510

I think this thread is more so of a "this pick up stuff doesn't work" to disguise that you lack the drive in the hope some guru will take you under his wing and transform you into a pimp

Leaving this here:
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=192004

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I don't have approach anxiety. I'm only approaching women when I see the curiosity light flash. Like for example, lets say I am at a night club, and there's 30 women in there. If a girl walks up to me and shows interest, I'll ask her to dance. Either that, or if I take interest in a girl, I'll ask. Like I said, I'm only approaching "in the moment". As a PUA, I would have to mass approach, right?

I spent 5 months studying this stuff, which is perhaps why my approaches are low. It has also put me in a paralysis-by-analysis state. I only practiced this stuff at my job, because I was trying to kill two birds with one stone (I work at a huge retail store with hundreds of people).

I'm only approaching women "in the moment", meaning either she has an interest, or I have an interest. I don't do cold approaches, because it seems like they don't work. Cold approach as in approaching when not enough curiosity/attraction has been built up.

14 approaches, I can see why you would think that.

There is a lay reports section that would testify you wrong. I am also living proof. They do work. They took me more than 14 approaches.

Enough with the speculation conjecture. Enough studying. Put in the time. Earn it. It's great to approach at work and all, lucky for you. I do speculate though, I get the feeling that you are approaching these girls talking about a product/service with what ever company you are working for and passing it off as a 'game approach'??

I am sorry though, seems a little harsh. But I am not sure you got what it takes, but I am just trying to save you from wasting your time, so I don't feel bad. You're not going to get anywhere with this current mindset of yours.

You are responsible for your life. You are responsive for whether you're happy or sad. You are not getting laid, it is important for you otherwise you wouldn't post on a pick up forum. But, you simply won't do what is required to do so earning the rewards. Sorry.

Is there anyway, I could persuade you to talk to 40 strangers a week in a direct manor?????

5 months studying with action isn't anything to be proud of. It is called mental masturbation AND procrastination.
This is why you learn game and learn how to build this. Cold approach is the trenches, it is going to put some hair on your chest. This is how you grow the un-comfort zones.

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Yes, tell me about approaching 40 strangers in a week, please.

The newbie challenge: viewtopic.php?f=6&t=41556

Make a thread titled 'your journal' Post up your field reports of majority of approaches.

I am willing use my time to give good feedback, because maybe there is hope for you. What is it gonna be?

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If you're really dedicated, and want to actually improve your life.. you'll be going out at least 4 days a week. If you're out and you only manage to approach 10 women... either one went well and turned to an instant date, or you're not as dedicated as you think. I think 40 is low. However, you're not even managing 1 girl per week. This is why you feel like it doesn't work. If I went to the gym and did 1 set of bicep curls once every week... just 8 curls... do you really think I'd be in any position to say weight lifting doesn't work?

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

Wow, I took a look at that newbie challenge. That's really going to help.

I already have a journal at this website.

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthrea ... =168088273

I was also an internet celebrity back in the day due to being in love with a video game character (Google JoshCube). I am willing for you to be my sensei. Teach me the ways, so I can shred that pussy. *Kneels down.*