There are a shitload of times this year where I have been talking to a girl and our mutual friends or random members of the public have been listening in and becoming "entertained" by the flirtatious nature of what's going on.

People make comments such as "You guys are so hot together" or "Can you two get a room please" and also "GOD, you two are ALL OVER each other". One girl had one of her friends say "Well, that's Carl out of the window then." (I later found out Carl is her current boyfriend).

Usually this happens when I do some kind of super confident tease involving me faking being annoyed or irritated by her, as if i'm babysitting her or something...

Anyway, this can be great and other women will "help" me pick the chick up by playing along to "enhance" my lines sometimes.

It gives me confidence that what I'm doing is working really really well but It's kinda hard to know how to react to this as it seems to throw me off a bit, like some strange form of shit test, even though I know people are probably just trying to break the tension a bit (because, let's face it, high-intensity flirting is awkward/unusual for most people).

Problem is, it kinda acts like a shit test for the GIRL as well. Sometimes they start to get nervous when they know people are listening in.

Today, the chick's sister was behind me and caught me off guard with "do you like my sister?". I kinda froze and came back with a cocky "eww... definitely NOT", which saved it a bit and got a laugh from both of them, but I think this comes across as rather negative and not something an alpha male would say. Also, I think ignoring it or disregarding it like other shit tests probably comes off as weak.

Is there a way to react to this stuff properly?

Also, if you know exactly what I'm talking about with this, please share your stories as it would be great to hear others experiences of using this to their advantage.

Ouch! Think about how that girl felt when you said that.
Yes. It comes off super negative. You want others to feel really good hanging out with you. What you could have said in this case, "Well duh, she is almost as witty as you!" and smile.

With these tests you want to convey a playful and unaffected demeanor. You are you and you don't really care what they say. Everything is pretty much haha ok.

Here is a situation I had:
I was hanging out with a social circle of 4 girlfriends. One of the girlfriends asked me, "Which one of my friends are you trying to get with?"

I responded simply, "All of them." And smiled. If you understand why that is a good response then you got it.

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