I know what your saying. I am a confident guy in all aspects. I go to the gym to get fit and keep in shape not to pick up chicks. i dont like to 'shit where i eat' if you get me.
I actually made the approach last night. I couldnt be bothered with her constantly catching my eye anymore so i just walked over and opened with 'Hi i seen you looking over a few times is my form bad or do you like my eyes?' dont know where it came from but i delivered it confidently and she started giggling like a little school girl. talked away got her name although she was currently doing a PT session so i resorted to telling her ill see her later

. Ill number close her next time i see her wondering by.
Been out the game for some time but its awesome how it never leaves you.