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You have to get into yours red.
If you're not in yours, you cannot make them get into there. What types of things make you happy? What times of things upset you? What times of things make you jealous? What do you like? And how often do you express these things once they are felt?
Once again I find that too much of your attention is on the woman you are talking to or the women you desire to talk to that you have no idea what it is you feel when you are communicating with them. You are completely in your head and focusing all of your attention upon them. So you've lost yourself and can only speak about what you know, not what you feel while communicating with women.
You have to practice remaining present in your body while communicating with other people.
A cool exercise for this:
Right now look away from the computer and use your mind to focus all of your energy onto your right foot. When done right it should either get warm or begin to tingle. Now your attention has dropped out of your head and into your foot.
So when you go out approaching(if you do) give this a try. While talking just focus some energy onto your right foot. You'll still be able to communicate.
This is just step one practicing for learning to keep some attention on yourself while you're communicating.
I am not always aware of what I am feeling even when I am alone.
Angry = women make me angry a lot and when technology breaks. I don't even realize women make me angry but I think it comes across to them because they often tell me I look scary and it's been a good while since one has felt comfortable being alone with me.
Happy = I don't know. I try to come to forums like this one hoping that when I get answers to my questions, it will make me happy because I will function better. I wrote a book and thought that having it published would make me happy, but it really didn't. I had an epiphany last night that I am unhappy because I am completely selfish and don't ever take the time to care about what other people feel.
Sad = I just posted a picture of myself on this other forum and asked girls to rate my appearance. The majority of them said I was "handsome enough" but that I looked like I never smiled and that they would never want to be with someone like that because it would bring them down. I would agree with them. And I did not know I was so unhappy until they told me that's how I look.
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