I am having a problem with this girl.
She is claimes to be intrested in me but i cant get a reading on her, noone knows we are fucking she wanted it to keep a secret.
fair enough we share a good amount of same friends I can imagine it getting weird (since shes also the EX of a guy who was close friends with some of my mates) So we decided not to tell anyone yet.
But when we are going out with the group, she hardly makes eyecontact or anything and its not like shes flirting with other guys just weird i guess.
She keeps saying she wont definatly wont have another relationship for the next year, also in spaces where it it obvious i would hear her.
behind everyones back shes apping me every night to tell her the thing i like to do with her and i am free to fuck.

All fun and dandy but i am not the type for this, goddamit i need attention outside the bedroom too, fuckzoned, i want more than that.

what to do.

So your outcome is to be her boyfriend? This is what I take from your post. Make this clear, to yourself and to the rest of us!
This is typical of girls in this situation.

Be patient. Become the best man you can be and keep fucking her. Fuck her better even and soon she will likely ask you to be the boyfriend which is far better anyway.
Just talk. I don't pay attention to hardly any talk like this. Could be true or could be false. It doesn't matter. The only thing you can control here is you. Be the type of man this women would love to have as a boyfriend. Don't tell her you are that guy, just be it. If of course that is someone who is congruent to you and doesn't compromise yourself.

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You're not the same guy under a new account thats going to paris with the girl are you?

If not man. The advice is simple.. She's only doing it because you're doing nothing about it. IF she can get what she wants without having to give you what you want what would be the point in giving you what you want? What purpose would it serve? What would SHE get out of it that she isn't already getting?

It would be foolish.

Start taking things away. Tell you don't have sex with women who you're not seen with in public. Start saying no when she's horny. You have to figure out what she wants and/or create a desire and withhold it in the same fashion she's with holding what you want. And then you have to hold until she gives. That takes strength and sacrifice on your part.

However you could be too deep in for changing it to be worth all the trouble so I'd suggest just walking. And also consider that you may not like her the way you do once she gives you what you believe you want. Your want is creating a desire for her. Once thats fulfilled what will be left?

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Thanks, and no i am not the man from paris.
I was already on planning on taking the sex away to show a willingness to walk.Figuerd that if she doent buldge in the slightest it would say alot about her thinking.
But i am also afraid of overthinking these things, maybe shes afraid of what our clique of friends would think if shes going with me, maybe i am to ugly to be seen with her in public. Only god knows whats going on in her mind.

Don't do this. Verbally bargaining with a women is not a good idea.
Do this with your actions. She calls you up for a booty call, you ask her to go out in public. This sets the boyfriend/girlfriend frame that you are looking for and you communicate exactly that without being needy or getting into a verbal argument or discussion that will only weaken your power.

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