I dont get it. why do women like to be degraded? why do women hate being treated with respect?

example: "you can come do my laundry" is somehow more attractive than "I would like to take you out"?
(yeah I know it doesn't matter what you say, I am just saying the guy who naturally says the first line is more attractive than the guy who naturally says the second line)

They just don't want guys who kiss their ass.

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Because it demonstrates that you have enough social status/abundance to not care how she responds.

That sort of behavior alone doesn't make them feel you're "a douchebag" typically, as long as you pair it with comfort building activities too.

For example, with one girl I'm seeing, I'll demand she bring me tacos randomly, but I'll also occasionally say a nice thing to her.

It's all about being in control of the situation. You aren't attracted to people in control/power, because you, like the average man, don't find that sexy. Women do. There's nothing wrong with it, we're just wired differently when it comes to attraction.

Have you started actively approach yet bart?

I wouldn't women like to be degraded, but if they had to choose between the confidence/dominate guy that degrades them and the insecure/nice guy that upgrades them they will choose the confident guy. Now if they can get both of course they will take it, but a woman likes to be giving a role. It just so happens that most confident guys have this mysisogynisiztc view point when it comes to prescribing a role.

I want to hear more about your approaching experiencing, and less of these questions sending you in circles. Lets progress. We can discuss philosophy until we're blue in the face.

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You don't need to degrad women to display confidence/dominate, there are tons of other ways to do it. The big point is to act like you don't need her, which will make her try to "win you over" as opposed to the nice guys who just bend over for her. The routine i'm working on is to display dominance, create alot of sexual tension and be flirtious.

Which I have been experimented with over the last year or so with female coworkers, and there is proper way to do it with out getting in trouble for harrasment. One good way is to express it through humour, best way to get into a girl pants is to get her laughing and poke fun at her as well. It displays both confidance and dominance

However some women like being degraded, they get off on it, i'm into BDSM so I enjoy being degraded to a certin exsent

That's just your point of view. You're looking at something innately beautiful with an uglified lens.

Women by nature are nurturers and men by nature are protectors and providers.

A woman doing your laundry for free is giving you the gift of her femininity as a woman. Same with cooking meals for you. In the same light, being protective of a woman so she goes home safe at night is receiving the gift of your masculinity as a man. She is not degrading you as a man by letting you protect her the same way as you are not degrading her as a woman by letting her nurture you.

As a man, it will do you wonders to respect and encourage a woman's femininity.

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It makes them feel dominated. Not ALL women like to be degraded... however, most like to be dominated. Just making clear that there is a difference between to two.