Hi Everyone - Name's Rod and I'm getting more into PUA material all the time. In my 50s, single and searching for exquisite women, I'm continuously impressed by how well some of what I'm reading and listening to applies in the field. I'm the oldest child of a timid AFC father, and am only now getting my shit together to address - finally - some age old questions about how to spark and maintain a girl's interest, and escalation.

Question out of the box - On Match.com, a Blond 8 and I were emailing a couple times back and forth, and I knew we needed to get to the meeting. I suggested a meeting (skipping the call), but she first wanted to check me out on LinkedIn. She seemed skittish about calling/meeting too early, and we hadn't talked yet - only email. But after seeing my LinkedIn profile, I haven't heard back from her for either (she has my #).

TMI on my part, is my guess? I'm in the one-day phase after not hearing from her, and the last communication was from me to her with my LinkedIn homepage. At this point, what to do? I need to goad her, but am unsure of the right mix of negging and asking, "what happened?", which I know not to do.

Suggestions? Thanks, and I look forward to both learning and contributing to the board.

Welcome!

This woman, do nothing. She has your number, right? Silence is your best weapon. A song without silence, is just a constant annoying noise - it's the silence inbetween the noise that makes it so good. Women are like cats, and men are like dogs. Dogs will never leave your side, they're instantly ready for affection and attention. Cats have to come to you at their own pace - if you rush them, they'll scratch you and run away. Masculinity is all about not giving up until we achieve what we want... but this can be destructive with women. As human beings, we're attracted to that which retreats from us. It'll induce curiosity and she'll start to wonder about you. That's if her interest level is like a 5/10 or higher. If not, then there's nothing you can do. But for now just focus on other women, she'll either pursue you or you'll meet somebody better.

I'd suggest that you look up Corey Wayne. The first video that I'd suggest is called "The Illusion of Action" ...I think you'd like his material a lot. He's got a book that you can either buy on Amazon (paper back) or read the eBook for free in the members area of his website (free to sign up and read it) read the book 10 times like he suggests, apply the material and your life will change a lot. YouTube him.

Good luck.

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Welcome to the Forum Rod,

If you have any questions just ask me.

Regarding the match dot com chick.. I would advice you giving this link a read: viewtopic.php?f=25&t=190620

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2 things I forgot to mention:

1. 99% of the guys on this forum don't know wtf they're doing. Just because they've got 3000 posts and joined 5 years ago, doesn't mean they know their shit. They could be a couch PUA talking nothing but theory. (The guy above me isn't one of them. As far as the initial pick up goes, he has a lot to offer. You could learn a lot about getting laid from him.)

2. There's a thread in my signature with the stuff that helped me to begin with. I don't imagine Jason Capital would be much help to you... but things like How to Win Friends and Influence People might help a lot.

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