Phone is better than texting.

If you phone her, don't stay on for more than 3-4 minutes. Just say hello, small talk for a few seconds, then say something like "I'd love to see you. When are you free to get together?"

If she doesn't give a specific day, say "Ok, give me a call when you free up your schedule" and end the conversation (not in a moody way)

If she gives a specific day, say "Ok, I'll pick you up at 6?" or whatever... don't tell her where you're taking her, though. Girls like to watch the night unfold before their eyes, rather than being predictable.

Once your on the date, your job is to lead, have fun, and create a romantic, fun filled opportunity for sex to happen. Just let her show up looking hot, and the rest is your job.

Credit to Corey Wayne for a lot of what I just said.

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Great advice man! When would you say is a solid day to call Tuedaday, Wednesday. Trying to plan this for Friday or even a Saturday night perhaps. I do think Friday works better for me. Also logistics... I don't have my own place at the moment so pulling her to my place is a no no. Not that I'm trying to smash on the first date but just trying to get a feel for everything. I also don't drive... however, I can gain access to a car for the night.

Call whenever you want. Some guys would say not to give your weekend up straight away, but I'm not one of them.
Go to her place or get a hotel if it's going well. Shit, you can fuck a girl wherever you want as long as you get her in the mood good enough. The more comfortable she is in the place, the easier it is - that's why it's so much easier with her house, your house or a hotel. But it's not 100% essential.
Yes you are trying to smash. Don't justify it, either. Nothing wrong with it at all. You're male, she's female. Why should you not want to fuck her? It's natural. Guys need to remember that. Feminism has really fucked itself in the ass and scared the shit out of a lot of men, but that's a whole different topic.
Nah don't bother. I don't drive and it doesn't make much difference to me. It's like job hunting: driving might expand your ideal options, and it's another (very minor) selling point, but it's not going to hold you back that you don't show up in a car lol.

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Again, great advice! How about a bike ride, would that be to much to do? I was thinking we can grab like Citi bikes and ride to a bowling alley or even just ride the park. Or walk to the bowling alley and grab food afterwards. I'm gonna give her a call tomorrow afternoon.

Could do the bike thing, as long as she wont get sweaty or anything

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Ended up calling her and left a voicemail message. She called me back directly afterwards and we spent a total of about 5 minutes on the phone. This is how it went...

I said hello, asked how she was doing and how her group ride went that she invited me to that I unable to make. She said it went well and went on with the details. She then asked me about my yoga class which I told her went well. She asked me if I bike often and I said yes everyday blah, blah, blah. I then asked her what her week looked like. She said pretty open for the most part. I then said are you free Friday it would be nice to see you and link up. She said yeah for sure it would be but she's going to a play in the evening. She then asked if we can meet in the afternoon for lunch or early evening before the play. I said I can try but I'll be working out there until 4pm.

She asked me about the weekend and I said I have a bike race Saturday and a photo shoot on Sunday. I countered and asked her about next Wednesday and mentioned I know it's a bit far fetched. She said that can work but unsure as she plans day to day. I said ok so how about we touch base on Friday morning and try to meet up before your play on Friday? She said that would be great!

So I just checked my schedule again and it looks like I'll be able to meet up with her sometime around 4pm. I was thinking of calling her tomorrow evening and letting her that we're on for 4pm. I wish I knew that I would be free sooner but I just got word on this literally right after I hung up the phone. Obviously our schedules are a bit conflicting but trying to find the best time to meet. Hope I didn't screw this up already haha. Either way she definitely seemed pretty interested in talking on the phone.

Question: Would you think it's best to just reach out again tonight and tell her Friday works or just save it for tomorrow?

Update:

Called her today. We have a date scheduled for tomorrow (Friday) to meet at 6pm. Looking forward to meeting up.

Nice! Now you've got no reason to call again until you get to the meeting spot. Don't you DARE do any of that calling to confirm shit.

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Fridays date notes: So we met up a little after 6pm. She had a beautiful red dress on as she was going to a play later that evening. She looked stunning! Mee walked throughout the city and I took her to a cold press juice bar that's really cool and chill.

We talked on the way there and drank our smoothies outside the place on their wooden benches. Conversation I thought was good. She seemed a bit nervous sometime and caught here looking at me often. I led the way to where we were going as I know the area very well.

One thing I wish I used more of was kino. I didn't do enough of that which could have easily been accomplished at traffic signals, especially while crossing. Upon leaving we got into a conversation about cycling and I said we should go for a ride sometime.

She thought that would be great and I said perhaps we can do something next week. She said sure. I hugged and kissed her on the cheek good by after I walked her to the venue where the play she was attending was. She invited me but I had to take off due to my race tomorrow morning.

Any thoughts regarding this and how I should push forward from here would be great. Should I follow up with a call tomorrow after my race, Sunday, Monday to plan for the next? I was thinking we meetup on Thursday next week this time in the evening for a dinner. Let me know your thoughts and how your would go about this.

You waited until the end for a kiss... and you only kissed her cheek?

I'm gonna try and list some pros and cons.

Pros:
- actually went on the date
- I'd say 60% chance you'll get another date

Cons:
- didn't kiss her during the date, only at the end of it
- didn't kiss her lips, just her cheek
- I don't personally think you should've gone on a date knowing she had a play after it... not like you're gonna get laid
- Trying to set up another date before that one was over; I'd have personally given her a call 2-3 days later to arrange a date for 2-3 days after that. Call once a week to set a date.

Still more than a lot of the guys on this forum are doing, though.

Got a date of my own tomorrow. Wish me luck

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You waited until the end for a kiss... and you only kissed her cheek?

I'm gonna try and list some pros and cons.

Pros:
- actually went on the date
- I'd say 60% chance you'll get another date

Cons:
- didn't kiss her during the date, only at the end of it
- didn't kiss her lips, just her cheek
- I don't personally think you should've gone on a date knowing she had a play after it... not like you're gonna get laid
- Trying to set up another date before that one was over; I'd have personally given her a call 2-3 days later to arrange a date for 2-3 days after that. Call once a week to set a date.

Still more than a lot of the guys on this forum are doing, though.

Got a date of my own tomorrow. Wish me luck

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You waited until the end for a kiss... and you only kissed her cheek?

I'm gonna try and list some pros and cons.

Pros:
- actually went on the date
- I'd say 60% chance you'll get another date

Cons:
- didn't kiss her during the date, only at the end of it
- didn't kiss her lips, just her cheek
- I don't personally think you should've gone on a date knowing she had a play after it... not like you're gonna get laid
- Trying to set up another date before that one was over; I'd have personally given her a call 2-3 days later to arrange a date for 2-3 days after that. Call once a week to set a date.

Still more than a lot of the guys on this forum are doing, though.

Got a date of my own tomorrow. Wish me luck

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Whoa, 3 times, sorry.

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Haha, yeah I saw that...

Well when I first met with her I hugged and kissed her on her side face/ cheek. I mean C'mon I'm trying here lol. I did give her solid communication and we asked each other lots of questions. She's a musician so I went in on that. Kino, well none really but I really should have. It was a really short meeting and I only met with her because I was already out in the city. I probably wouldn't setup a date if I wasn't especially since she had the play right afterwards.

I terms of setting up another date... I wasn't actually trying to at all. She began talking about biking and I said something like "Oh you've never been there?" She said "No." I then went on to say we should check it out some time then, with here responding yeah we should that would be cool, that's all. I'll give here a call on like Tuesday to see what she's doing for Thursday as next week Friday I'm tied up. Good luck with your date dude and thanks for all your help thus far.

Yea I missed a few "pros" cause I was in a rush lol, wasn't trying to be a dick.

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