Hi there,

I played daygame and i have no AA. (I do have a habit of waiting for the correct moment to approach)

i met a girl on street and i opened her, asked her for direction. After she replied me, we chatted for a while and i took her to a museum and i numbered closed her 45 mins later due to time constraint (i am on my way to work). We had a good time, hugged and i kissed her goodbye.

But when i text her the next day, she was happy to hear from me but rejected to see me again. She said she don't know anything about me and it is awkward and uncomfortable for her.

I have successfully open girls and have light conversion with them, number closed but girls most of the time told me they do not know me and shy off when i try to set up for day 2. I am thinking this is my sticking pt. I have read PUA stuff and i started daygame like for about a month. I just want to know why girls keep giving me this answer and how to move on?

Thanks. Peace.

This is the problem.

You are too indirect, there needs to be a time to add some intentions and then in a direct way, 'Let's go for a drink sometime to get to know each other?' (on a romantic level)

There needs to be a dating frame.

If you do not do this, you just become the friendly guy that asked for directions. Don't be that. You don't have AA because your balls are not on the line. You are playing it too safe. You are approaching indirectly and number closing indirectly.

There needs to some intention. You need to go direct during the conversation. Or, go direct at the start and screen out the girls who are and who are not interested.

Indirect approach + indirect close = very high flake rate (unless you look like the model)
indirect approach + direct close = less flakes, but still a lot
direct approach + direct close = more rejections but more solid numbers

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Thanks for the reply, pebble!

But i believe girls who gave out their number willingly to me, do know my intention. and where our relationship heading to.

one example , i approached a girl who was working in a retail shop, (indirect approach), chat about what i do, she share with me her personal pics, i asked her out after her work, she rejected, i told her i like her and it would be better for us to have some time together next time, she rejected and said she don't know me.

Another example, i indirect approached a girl on street, we took some pics together, chat about travelling and together sat down in starbuck for a drink, parted with number closed. Successfully set up day 2 and enjoyed having lunch together. texted for a few days with affection but suddenly she texted me saying she doesn't know me and she was confused.

Is this because of lack of emotion connection?? Rapport?? Attraction?? i am confuse too...

it is massive numbers game, it will take me about 20-50 phone numbers to get a girl to see me again. Bare in mind that I dress and look well and have quite a lot of confidence.

If you're dressed bad, feel needy and have bad fundamentals it could take you a 100 girls to get a date.

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