great ideas stealth!....the pic is still creepin the shit out of me though

I'm guessing that he is closer to my age so here is something from another perspective that might help. When my Gf and I broke up (she wanted me to change i told her to fuck off i don't change for a single person. Yes i know strong frame ) I did miss her alot and all the normal break up emotions. So here is what i did.
1 Set Goals for yourself. For me i am at the gym for almost 2 hours a day (I just came back from the gym about 5 min. ago actually) nearly seven days a week. For me I had weight and body modifcation goals that i wanted to reach by a set time. Keep telling yourself that when you reach those goals it is going to be a new chapter in your life. New you. New persepctive on life.
2 When you reach your goals REWARD YOURSELF. I cannot say this enough. When you turn that new chapter in your life over celebrate. For me i knew one of my favorite Musicians was coming into town and that i HAD to go (taylor swift... Get over it). I wanted to look a specific way before the concert because i knew it was going to be target rich. For you it might just be going shopping for new close (maybe even a size smaller if thats your goal)

3 SARGE. I can not stress this enough. When you reach your goals try to find some new material (PUA material i mean) and go out sarging with new material and a new you. When i did this i number closed 2 girls that night and went out for dinner and hooka with a set (bot were 20 and i was still 17(god i love my fake id)) The other number i closed i f closed later that week. Do you think one after this i wanted to think about my ex. Hell no.

If you truly care about her, and she's very young, there may be a chance that if you have changed profoundly, she'll come back to you.

The worst thing you can do!
I've hooked up with an ex, and we had a nice FBR for a couple of months. And guess what, all that created was bunch of drama.

Don't let the bitch control you! Now she wants to be with you, now she doesn't. Make it a solid break and move the fuck on!

(wow, I haven't cursed this much in past 50 posts. Makes me think if I'm still bitter over MY ex?)

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This game is automatic. You give it to 'em one time, they come back like addicts.

i agree with slick on tthis one...getting back together with your ex girlfriend really isn't a good idea. Show her that YOU are the stronger person and that she can't just have you whenever she wants.She hurt you man, and beleive me everyone's gone through it, but don't give in...don't talk to her anymore, that's the best thing to do. There are sooo many more girls out there that you will have a better connection with she is just a step in your life as you were to her. No one belongs to anyone.

I know that it can be the hardest thing in the world, but once your totally over her, you will be such a stronngerr person

depends on the circumstances, it might be the best thing you can do.

Agreed.

name one

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This game is automatic. You give it to 'em one time, they come back like addicts.

when you both loved each other, a lot, but her parents are anal about how she's 4 years younger and her brother talk shit about you to her all the time along the line of "he just banged so and so"

So a guy should put himself through that again? Why?
There are so many women out there much better than her, without as much drama.
You need to get out of that "scarcity" of women out there.

Plus, the guy is looking on advice on how to cure his oneitis, not how to try to get back together with his ex.

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This game is automatic. You give it to 'em one time, they come back like addicts.

Slick is right. Man, there are so many women out there. My advice which is highly recommended by most of the members on the forum is to go out sarging and sarge until you shit out sarging bricks! Forget about the chick-if she dumped you and made you feel like shit then she's a total bitch.

I want you to do these things for me and write back how you feel: It looks like you need to get your priorities straight with yourself of what you're looking for and what you're not looking for in a romantic interest.

1) Grab a piece of paper and a pen.
2) Write down five good qualities that you have and what other's perceive of you.
3) Write down another set of 5 things that you want to improve on your personality.
4) Write down 5 important qualities that a romantic relationshp must have. Focus on them hard!
5) Write down 5 most unimportant or things you can't stand about a romantic relationship that you can deal without.

THis is a good excercise on working on your inner game. You must work on your frame which is part of your inner game, in order to be successful in picking out the right women.

A person with better qualities will attract hotter and better women. A man with shitty ass qualities will attract only bitches and whales-which I don't think you want that!

Constantly remind yoursef what you look for a woman and it must be higher values than you normally would want. ALso remind yourself of what values you need to increase to get those type of women.

I hope you'll understand this then you'll soon realize that this girl isn't so hot for you and drop her like old luggage. Peace out bro!

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