So fellas I need feed back on this one. I met this girl on Tinder and we've exchanged information and had a nice amount of interaction thus far through social networking sites and Text messages. Even send pictures to one another and a few phone conversations. I've notice that this girl is trying to put herself in a high value position by giving me time limits as to when she can talk on the phone with me and stupid shit like that. She's forced me into a frame to always think her time is way valuable than what it actually is. Almost like she's a perfect 10 and she's clearly not. So somehow I have gotten her to agree to hanging out on Friday. But she just sent me some type of shit test or LMR. Dialog as follows:

Girl: So I got a party at like 8 or 9 Fri night but I am good to hang if you still want to before that.

Me: What time did we agree on like 5ish right

Me:If you have plans it's alright we can just reschedule for another day

Girl: Idk if we agreed on a time lol. I could prob do 4 if you still want to if not that's fine.

How should I react?

Just to clarify, this isn't LMR. LMR is when you have her in the bedroom

She is being a little flakey is all.

For me, I don't agree to dates where the girl has to meet friends after wards, if I was you. I would decline and arrange another time preferably around 8pm ish. So that way, I have a few hours and her at my place for boom Boom. 5pm is so early man.

If she doesn't find the time for that. I would stand my ground and say "no problem". She would be hard to seduce anyway if she always has to be somewhere else.

To summarise, for me...I would only date girls who commit their whole evening to me. I do not do the whole "kill 2 birds with one stone" thing.

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Your right not LMR... I agree. Sorry still getting use to the forums head to post it real quick from my phone. I'm definitely canceling would you reschedule for another day this weekend or next weekend to punish her?

Here is an update on my situation. I called off the date. But here's the thing shortly after the chick sent me photos of her in a bathing suit asking which one should she choose. Then I told her and she was like ok cool it's for the pool party tomorrow. Total slap in the face! Here's some text dialog below. How should I go about handling this?

Girl: So I got a party at like 8 or 9 Fri night but I am good to hang if you still want to before that.

Me: What time did we agree on like 5ish right

Me: If you have plans it's alright we can just reschedule for another day

Girl: Idk if we agreed on a time lol. I could prob do 4 if you still want to if not that's fine.

Me: U ready for your test?

Girl: Yeah I feel ready I'm actually sick of studying for it :/

Me: Just saw your snaps... Hmmm hard choice but I'll loving blue looks good on your shape

Me: Which was the winner?

Girl: Lol thanks.. idk between blue and the turquoise.. the party is Tom night

Me: Turquoise looks better on your complexion

Me: In that case choose green and white and save Turquoise for me!

Girl: Haha I can wear it for you anyways... I thought you liked the blue one?

Girl: So we are not hanging for a bit tomorrow correct?

Me: I'm afraid your gonna have to wear them for me now that you've teased me with it.

Me: I like the blue and turquoise... The only thing missing is heels


Girl: Heels w a swim suit?? Sounds like a show... do tomorrow? Just wanna make sure

Me: Your gonna be my only contestant in my private swimsuit contest

Girl: That means I win... I'm down

Me: About tomorrow I had plans wanted to show you a good time after all that studying to ace your test. That's not gonna be enough time in my eyes But I respect if you have other plans.

Me: After all they say good things come to those who wait

Me: Now there is an alternative though only if you allow yourself to experience I fun night with me... We have a pool and jacuzzi. We can have our own pool party

Girl: Haha oh do they now? Okay if that's not enough time that's understadable. I'm worried about fining the amount of time then lol how long?

Girl: Lol when??

Me: There's no real time frame. Let's not put boundaries on our time. I want us to be able to enjoy ourselves and not worry about having other plans.
all I would want to treat you like I would want to be treated. So I would never plan to hang out with a girl with secondary plans elsewhere. I would want to take the time out to spend with her.

Girl: I get that and I appreciate it. I'm going hiking sat if I get back at a decent time would that work.. or I could maybe do tue next week

Me: Didn't you say your ex was a lot like that? Not making time for you and all

Girl: Yeah I did... think about those days if not we will figure something else out. I am off to bed got my twst in the am :/

Me: Your twist

Me: Lol Good luck on your test

Girl: Oh wow sorry. Thank you.
Girl: Oh or Sunday