Met a girl on a Friday. Date on sat and took her home for some crazy all night fun.

Then on Tuesday I text her:


Me: stop what you're doing look in the mirror. You're gorgeous.

Her: haha thanks. I have to be honest though I'm not the biggest fan of compliments for compliments sake.

Me: neither am I. I said that bc that's how I feel when I see you. But I will keep my compliments to myself.

Her: haha. You doing some light FB stalking over there? :p

Me: haha caught red handed


Did I screw this up for good?

Me: stop what you're doing look in the mirror. You're gorgeous.

Her: haha thanks. I have to be honest though I'm not the biggest fan of compliments for compliments sake.

Me: stop what you're doing look in the mirror. You're absolutely horrendous.

Be more of a challenge dude. Why are you getting all emotional and apologetic for?

The initial text was fine. How you handled her response wasn't. A little cheeky humour will take you a long way.
And no you didn't blow it "for good". Let her get back you

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Fuck. So just wait till she reaches out again? That's my only hope?

You banged her?

If yes, I'm willing to best she will reopen. From my point of you you're making a big deal out of nothing. Nothing you said called for a response so its not like you were ignored. She just didn't respond.

She'll open you again.

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Yes we banged. We did a lot of other things too. Oral, showered together and stayed up all night. IMO one of best first dates ever connection wise.

The why the **** are you tripping?

Give her some space man. She'll be back around.

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Yea so sad to see so much mental masturbation...

Gotta learn to turn off 'game' after a certain point dude. Esp after sex...

Wasn't trying to 'game' her at all.

I know I overanalyse this but I guess it's cause I like her a lot

I will do what you say and give her space though and see if she comes back around.

As you said Eddie, she reopened. She's moving to NYC and sent me this

Put in an application. Thompson and spring. Fingers crossed!

So as an update she wrote back and we had a fun text message convo where she shared with me about the place she put in a rental application, sent me a video of the place and we joked around a bit.

One question I have is it was a Friday night conversation that probably could have led to me asking what she was up to. I chose not to because I am legit sick and want to rest up this weekend. The convo ended by me asking what the vibe she got from the real estate broker was. She said that she wasn't in NYC yet but her roomies said "JP was vibing". (JP is the name of the broker). My response was "ladies love cool JP" (a play on LL Cool J) because I didn't want to say something like "oh lol when you get to NYC" or something to that effect because I was sick. Then that was the end of the convo.

I guess my question is what could I have done better? I wanted her to ask what I was doing, but she never did. Is it ok that we just texted with no intent to meet up? I do feel like it was a plus because she opened me but I always feel pressure to make a move to ask her out when I'm texting. This time I went against my intuition.

Appreciate any thoughts and grateful for everyone's help this far.

Stop talking about LL cool J and say something like:

"Hey, let's hang out again, which days are you free?" (Please normalise yourself)

Congrats on the sex, you sound like you've won the lottery lol. Chill out and get to the point more.

Are you expecting her to lead the conversation back to your bedroom?

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Right. I would have asked her out but I am sick and don't want to go out today or tomorrow so that is why I didn't ask her out.

You are asking her when she free. How will you know you are sick if she can only meet next Thursday???

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Because she lives in Boston SPAM and is only available on weekends. She was on the bus to NYC yesterday and hit me up (which signals to me she wants to see me this weekend). So had I been like what's up when are you free, she would have said tonight or tomorrow, then I would have to say I can't tonight or tomorrow. So then why even ask?

You go in my black book of people I hate

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