Hello brothers,

so a few days ago, I saw a cute azn girl walking on the side of the road, I pulled over and honked my car and rolled down the window, "Hey you cute girl in orange hat" come here right now!!!!!" she came to my car and got her number. Yeah she is an international student from china, I dont think most canadian girls would give me their real number like that.

But anyways fast forward to tonight, I was just fking around and decided to call some girls and this culminated into date.

It was hot here in Ontario today so I suggested we get a slushies. On the phone she kept giving me resistance " I have to study for my tax exam on Wednesday" me I was like just 5min cmon. Her english is horrible, and she could barely hear me over the phone, so I was like ok ill come to your place at 21h00.

I pick her up and she was looking "fine" (better looking than most girls i've dated) , we went to get slushies, then I drove to the lake, saw a picnic table we sat down. I sat real close to her and chatted, tried to rest my hand on her leg she was like "no", saw her jade bracelet, then try to convert it into holding hands = resistance "no!" , there were mosquitos buzzing all over so I pretended their was one on her leg and pretended to swipe it away. Yeah I was in a horny state going into this date.

Just as we pulled up at the lake, her friend called (she speaking in chinese) then she looks at me and says she has a report at 12am midnight to complete, and her group was waiting for her. (In my mind I was looking for ways to stall)

Most of the conversation was drivel, what her parents do, which part of china she from, what courses in her MBA program etc.......didn't know how to build a connection.

The mosquitos were too much so we went back to my car: then her friend kept calling and she kept pressuring me to leave she has to get home. I was like "ok let me finish my drink" . then I kept trying to put my arm around her ......."no no no dont touch" ,

lol then I was like there is some blue stuff on your lips ( I really wanted to kiss her) but she removed it herself and was like "no no it ok lets go home"

On the way back I kept trying to put my arm around her,but huge wall of resistance.

When I dropped her off at her house, I was like give me a hug (yes I got my hug "close") and went for the kiss and she said "no no no no no kiss!" then I was like sorry I forgot they were so conservative in china. and she left the car and went back to her house.

I escalated too fast? what can I do to get her feeling comfortable around me? I was trying to run the 'Incredible Connection' Pattern but no point since her english is weak.

Overall, I am proud of myself for even getting this date, considering my weak skills with the opposite sex, I have only had one gf in my life and yeah so its a big deal for an AFC with a shit load of balls.


Now I am going to jerk off thinking about her. And you bet I will be calling her she lives right down the street.

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Firstly --- good for you. You're out there approaching and getting numbers and trying to convert.

Here's what I think the issue was: She's barely speaks English and she's here visiting/academically? I am half thinking she probably didn't know your intentions when you set up the date... IE: she may not have known it was a date... How clear were you when you asked her to grab a slushie anyway?

There's 'conservative' and then there's plain disinterested. From your description of events, it really doesn't look like she was into you once she figured it what you were after.

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Yeah, seems like one of those shy Chinese girls that seem to be afraid of literally everything in life.

Intentions need to be clarified.

'you, me, we go for drink?, perhaps a kiss? Phone number'

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yeah she is here doing her mba being taught in fairly formal english, maybe she was pretending?

Ok, I even texted her right before the date "its a date!" lol .

when I got her number on the side of the road I was like you are a really beautiful girl. So think I made it fairly clear, unless she really doesnt understand english.

Damn I want her ppoomps so bad. (and she lives a few houses away)

Bottom line, I gotta figure this game out....I refuse to get an escort and pay for sex. and I refuse to be a frequent fapper (you guys know what i mean).

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so what you guys want me to do? keep calling her and trying to get a date? forget about her?

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I'm trying to give Halle Berry a baby and no one can stop me!!!!