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well im starting to think that shopping centres are a bad place to cold approach. I opened a woman walking her dog at the park on the way there and the interaction went quite well for my standards. I went to the shopping center already on an unstifled state, and started opening everyone that came into view.
Then I got a red bull and I just started approaching anything in sight, opening directly immediately with stuff like ''when are you going to stop being so boring and give me a kiss''......''how would you like to hang out with me and be cool for once in your life''......''I have just met you but I already want to put a baby in you''......''hey, not so fast....why don't we talk about more important things...like you!'' Sometimes after I drunk the red bull I found myself saying to myself...''wow slow down!!'' but I couldn't resist anything that came my way.
Almost all approaches I got the same 'i already have a boyfriend' shit-test responses, my responses sometimes got a giggle from them but not much else. I just went there for the purpose of self amusement, saying whatever I wanted to say, whatever turned me on without worrying about the womans reaction and to approach as many women as possible. I must have approached about 50 women.
While I was in one shop opening another woman, I got approached by four security guys and they told me that they had been receving complaints for the last few hours about someone harassing them and was told I had to leave the premesis and my day of cold approaching was brought to an end.
So im thinking that shopping centers really Is not the right place to cold approach.
Ok so what is the next step you recommend, so I can improve?
I think I would do much better if I had a coach and if I had a more sound strategy in the battlefield. Sometimes when you are in the battlefield, it feels similar to a boxing fight in the sense that, you come up with a strategy with your boxing coach to box, move, fight at your pace and distance against your stronger and bigger punching opponent. But then when the bell rings, the gameplan goes out of the window and you find yourself slugging away, standing toe to toe with your opponent, completely forgetting everything that you worked on and not using your head. That's how it feels sometimes.
man, it's like you don't even put much effort, the thing you do, it's ok to build confidence, approaching, saying the first thing that come to your mind, but if you said that you can handle rejection, it's time to move on the next step, just being yourself, i mean, saying something more than just those canned pick up lines and slow down a little.