| The night started, playing drinking games with roommates at home, leaving to the club afterwards.
Eye-contact was awesome. I have been looking around exceptionally much, dancing lightly, keeping good overview of the club. This way, I found openable girls by returning glances at them from far away, looking at them just for so long that they would become interested, look away, look again, laughy and flirty.
This happened with two (groups of) girls, while I was together with male and female roommates. Both groups ended moving in on me!!!
One group sat down near me when I took a seat in the lounging area, and we exchanged flirty looks for just about 2 minutes until they felt that I was not going to make any further moves. They walked away. (My roommates were already making love gestures.)
Around 4am I was feeling a little bit done for the night. A big drawback of an entire night of alcohol; I was feeling slightly nauseous, tired, hungry, even had to take a crap. Haha can't get much worse, so I wanted to leave.
Still dancing around my with my roommates, who didn't want to leave yet, I was acting all hot and happy and still on top of this eye contact game.
The second group of girls had one girl coming to me and try and open me, offering me a beer.
I rejected her beer, which should be no problem. But all that was said, was: "Do you want a beer?" "No thanks." Really, that was all!
(I was really distracted by the reaction of my female roommate, who I used to fool around with and have feelings for. Her watching me getting attention from other girls should be a good thing. It displays my value and I still want to fool around with her. Just don't try this yourself, I'm happy to have the extra experience, but it complicates life in a very energy draining, sometimes painful way.)
Body language and facial expression were significant here. All people looked shocked when I rejected this nice beer gesture. Now I'm feeling ashamed of myself, start overanalyzing and am thinking: "Damn, I should have said; no thanks, very nice of you but I'm not thirsty, you neither right haha, bla bla how do you know each other, ok nice to meet you, I'm leaving in a minute, give me your number so we can talk later". After all, it was a rare effort of a girl approaching a man; feminist behaviour which should be rewarded imo. Well, better next time, when I'm approached on one of my brighter moments during clubbing.
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