Hi guys, first post here! I've come to realize there's nothing wrong with getting some help on picking up women the right way, as i've so ignorantly avoided. Anyways, moving on:
So I live in a condo complex, and about a week back, i meet this really cute ass girl. I suppose i skipped the bantering stage a little bit, as it's something i like to be a bit prepared for, and i wasn't at the time, but long story short, she was outside drinking a beer, and as i was sitting with her talking, i smuggly said "oh, aren't you gonna offer me one?" I was just trying to kind of tease her, but apparently i didn't make that evident enough. Not only did i do this ONCE, i did it YET AGAIN . Didn't think much of it, but based off her body language and shortness with me afterwards, i sensed a slight bit of hostility, or at least that's how it felt.

Fast forward to today, and i'm walking my dog and see her outside talking to a couple people (she sits outside with a few of her neighbors and they all just kinda talk). i go to sit down to talk with them, and i'm talking to them for a little bit, and a conversation came up about how she was gonna get a mixer for a drink, and i believe i said "for what drink?", and she said, presumably half joking cause she had a bit of a smirk on her face- "I'm not telling you, because you're just gonna ask for some like last time", and she started walking to her car, then said, "you know, you made a bad first impression!" and started going towards her car.

SO. i would like to fix this in any way possible, yet avoid being supplicative as a result. I feel like her mentioning I impression MAY have been a way of her letting me know "try and fix this tiger, and you're in the clear", however i COULD be reading that wrong. My idea is to buy her a six pack of the beer i was drinking and do some cornball shit like leave it at the front of a door with a note saying something like; "is this a better impression?" something like that.

I would very much love some help or ideas for this guys, because she is sexy as all hell, and i'm really fond of the idea of having a down the street lay, as i'm sure you guys would be! Analysis of the situation, ideas, help, it's all appreciated. Thank you guys!

Game a different girl and start fresh. There are plenty of girls just as cute or hotter than she is. I wouldn't have asked her to offer you a drink, since you don't even know her yet. You might be able to pull that opener off if you had the right delivery and said it with a smirk and cocky/funny attitude and calibrate to her response, but there are better ways to open. Get more experience opening a lot of sets and this one set won't seem like a bid deal.

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So I feel as if your response is ultimately to cut my losses, plenty of fish in the sea, etc. What if I'm feeling slightly resilient and would like to give it another shot? Surely you have some idea?

This is called 'oneitus'.

You basically have read about the game an kinda know about it but you never immersed yourself with it.

You now meet one particular girl that clearly dislikes you and this one moment is your reason to join this community. That you haven't even applied any of the mindsets with.

This community isn't about seducing every one particular girl. This is a numbers game. You get rejected and girls can hate you. On the flip side, you can get attraction fast and girls love you. Why not find those girls instead?

Ever met someone and they made a bad 1st impression on you, but no matter hard they try, your 1st opinion will always be of that moment. It is pretty hard to change your mind, the more they try the more you have less repect for them

You simply don't get a 2nd chance to make a great 1st impression.

Now, do what you did with 10 other women, i'm sure you will find some girls that dig it. I don't get why you want to spend more time on girls that treat you like a piece of poo on their shoe.

It is time to be good with women instead, don't you think, Nick?

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You know what? That's a great way to put it. Why should I worry about one person who doesn't get what I got going? I know that I'm an attractive person, and it could have just came down to even her not digging it. I'm sure another chick, however, could be with it.

I'm not personally a numbers guy, but truth be told, I go on dry spells for like... ever. I'm 23, and I'm honestly looking yo start going towards a serious relationship at some point, but i really wanna get some promiscuity out of my system for a couple years. But that's totally true, there are plenty of women, gorgeous women out there that will dig it, so why worry?

Thanks for the perspective guys!

I know that playing the numbers game can be a massive chore, but if do it, you get rewarded with the most vagina.

It also helps tremendously with finding a quality relationship. Why pick one that one girl that took 4 months of a dry spell to get in a relationship with, as opposed to choosing one girl out of your 4/5 fuck buddies? You really shouldn't settle for 2nd best. You have to go through quite a few thorns to find the rose. Cheesy I know , but totally true.

Most guys you know, take whatever they can get and cheat with Tinder behind their back. Don't be that, be the elite, be the top 5%.

You're welcome,

Good luck, Nick

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Teach me, senpai.

The beer idea is cool..

However I would tune that.. Make it ONE beer, with a note tied to it that says "Second impression" - just those two words. NO name, no nothing.

You don't ask her to validate you by saying " Is this better ?" - You assume you're already validated, because you are. Or at least you should be.

You are far too invested though, but i think that beer gesture may just even out the odds.

Give it a try and report back to us.

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My man, I dig it. I'm gonna do that for sure

Eddie, what's your recommended next step? I get I should DHV, aND I'll likely avoid C & F this time around, but when I see her, should I make no menton of what I did? Otherwise if she brings it up, play into it but avoid supplicating, word?

Play it cool man.

Of course you don't bring it up. She'll get it and if she doesn't then it never happened.

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My dude. Oh yeah, fun fact (irrelevant to this post), I'm friends on facebook with a miller lite girl/model/whatever she is, and she surely thinks she's a 9 or 10 based on the gaggle full of afcs hitting her with "you're beautiful" on her photos. She had a crop top on, and I said "did your shirt shrink in the laundry?" She responded, but i was the only one she responded to... haha this shit works!