I just converted a new girl to an MLTR through speed dating oddly enough. First time I ever done it lol.
Anyways she is pretty cool girl now. The first date was at a bar and then I brought her home for the close. She was on her period so I had her give me a BJ. A week later she came over and brought alcohol. We didn't have ice so she went and got some. F close. She is above average at sex and I can get her better.
The next week, I invited her over and she invited me to her work thing (trying to get me to be the boyfriend). I said she should come over after. She did. We hook up and it's becoming the relationship I want it to be (more on that later).
Tonight she texts me to hang out. She mentions something about using my computer for her job. I tell her I'd like to hang out, but I am not interested in the job search part. She says just 10 min. I ignore and she says she will take care of it and see me Wednesday night.
This is important because I am not the guy she does errands with, rather I am the guy she comes over to see, we hook up, talk about cool stuff and then she goes. At this time, I don't really have time for the girlfriend thing nor want it. I am designing the relationship I want where we hang out once a week, it is just good times and then she is back a week later. This takes good sex, a strong frame, and a willingness to walk away. Plus I have to know what I want and how to get that. Going good so far
