So I read double your dating by david d'angelo lately and this concept really struck me as something that made sense but I have no idea about how you could apply it. He roughly says that showing a women, either by a card or small gift or just mentioning it, that you were thinking about them really means more to them than telling them they are beautiful or something of that nature. Now its not that I don't believe him I mean he must know his stuff, but does anyone have any experience with trying something like this out and does it really work as good as he says it does? And what would you do get them like a card that said "thinking about you" or just get a normal card and write your own message in it?

A HB would mistrust a compliment, especially if it was really obvious and something she's heard a lot, like "you're hot." She'd think, oh, he's just trying to play me. But someone who says, "I was thinking of you yesterday when [insert trance word/something she's into i.e. I passed the yoga studio, I heard that new Green Day song, etc.]. It seems more thoughtful and less obvious.

Oh yeah, it's better to say "thinking of you" or to text it rather than give a card. Cards are for B-day or Valentines, or Get Well... special occasions. A card out of nowhere seems too needy.

To give a card and/or gift for no reason -- you have to be her BF/ be in R.