Hey guys,

So i'm pretty new to game but it's been improving drastically i get IOI's from every single girl I approach. My face to face game and kino is working great to the point where girls take my phone and put their numbers in it (recently i got sent a nude from her straight up). But BUT... once i get their number, my game just utterly falls apart. When I text them it just seems like all attraction just vanishes. Recently, after sending a text asking a girl if she was in the country i asked if she wants to go chill at a nice cafe (Good place for Phase-Shifting). No reply... I'm gonna leave the country so I sent a playful text saying just cuz im leaving ur giving me the cold shoulder . Word for word like dat. Idk what I'm doing wrong guys, it's driving me nuts this has happened so many times. I've met some really hot and nice women that I've failed with cuz of my phone game. Advice? On this specific girl and phone game in general would be greatly appreciated.

THANKS GUYS, you guys have helped loads! Just a little more.

Most of the PUAs here wud say "u didnt create enugh attraction in the first place thts y she doesnt reply"
While fm my experience, some gals r just flaky, play it hard to get, or probably get busy in their own life once u r not in their sight. So if she really was attracted this cud b the reason n m afraid theres lil u can do abt it.
On the otherside sometimes a person Thinks tht he has attracted the gal while in actual she was just being nice to him.In this case the 1st reason holds true (u didnt create enugh atraction).
Now its difficult to say abt ur case whether she was really attracted or not.
Though not a PUA yet, but thts my own learning so far. (I hope u dont have to b a PUA to help others)

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I don't understand now man... lmfao. Have I been doing this wrong the whole time?! I usually run the tests to see if the IOI's are there. Like the slipping away (Tightening Grip) or a shushing lip test I made. I literally run these tests on every girl I game to see if I'm wasting my time or not. If they don't work then I just pack my bags and leave. With this particular girl she even gave something to me to remember her by. Man I give up XP.


On a more PUA note, So basically the fundamental thing is I hvn't built enough attraction to sustain a text convo? Otherwise if I had what do I do? Do I make conversation or do I just ask her out on a date? Anything specific or should I just go with the flow?

Thanks for the reply man! Hey any experience is fine, I'm not exactly at complex game yet so I don't need a legitimate master PUA

M assuming dat u created enugh attraction. Saying dat wat i can possibly think of r the natural consequences. like she may be got busy in her personal life (job, family issues it cud b any one). Also sometimes ive experienced the gal wud start ignoring u just bcz she really likes u but doesnt want to fuck up the relation wid u . Sounds strange ryte ?? But it happens. n from my learning it happens most probably if u havent created enugh Comfort level wid her.

Speaking of solution i wud say u do either of the following based on ur own instincts on wat actually the matter is:

Case-1 She got busy in her life.
Call her n tell her tht u r goin back home n u really want to meet her before going. Recently it worked for me coz it puts the gal in an emotional state (u knw dat last time before i go feeling).

Case-2 She's afraid n doesnt want to fuck up
This usually happens when u r too direct or escalating too soon. She might comply in the beginning in her emotions but later when she sits alone her bitch shield will come up.
Solution: A long shot man. If u were not goin back i wud ve suggested slow thngs down n build more comfort. But since u r already not in contact i thnk it wud further create bridges.

Last note: Best to tell her u really like her n want to see her before going coz u really miss her (or somethng like dat which puts her in emotional state)

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Alright more rapport is what i need with most women. I'll keep that in mind.

Also about Phone game is there any specific thing you should be doing or is it just simple texting like you do with your bros?

Thanks for the replies man I''ll try this for sure!

If u've gamed the girl face to face, then she's likely to reply 80-90% of the time. A call is always preferred though as it creates more attraction then text.
As far as text game is concerned, being playful and funny mostly works for me. If u want some more details then i wud say u read Text Game (its difficult to explain all points here). A few basic points i can think of (from my personal experience) are like:-

1) Ask her questions. If u make a statement gals sometimes get confused and dont reply (even if they want to coz they dont wanna screw it up).

2) Not being too desperate. e.g if she's not replying then dont send more n more text messages. Wait for her to reply.

3) Dont reply immediately. Dont reply too late. Normally 1-2 mins (max) is fine. This is to give her the feeling that u r not "Waiting" for her reply. U've got thngs to do n its just normal for u.
Sometimes i wait for 5-6 mins if she's also taking about 10 mins to reply but generally 1 min (not immediately though)

4) Be brief. Avoid long discussions. Some say just use text game to bring her on date only and game her there instead.
Not at all. Its completely different wid bros. Wid bro's it doesnt really matter if u reply late or stuff like that. But wid gals there r definitely some constraints u need to follow (as i mentioned some above).

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Thanks alot bro! You've helped me alot I'll try to keep wat you said in mind.

Thought you might want an update on the girl she actually was tied up she has guests so she doesn't get to go on her phone or out for that matter at all. Looks like you were right style98 .

u forgot the "1" in my name. its style981.. lolz
I hope i was ryte

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Screen shot some of your text conversations for us so we can pin point the problem.

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