I did about 10 approaches, not 100 like was suggested, but it's something...

They are all pretty weak....

I started by going down town. Here's one:

Me: Every time I go out, I plan to just drink one, but I end up having to call a cab
Her: Well at least you call a cab...
Me: yea.....

Then, someone messaged me that I had been talking to on Tinder so I decided to go meet her somewhere. She suggested a place I had never heard of before and I'm glad she told me about it because it is full of hot girls.

For some reason, I didn't feel like being tied down to one person at this place. So when I got there. I just looked at her and she wasn't hot, so I was like "I was having more fun where I was," and only talked to her for about 2 seconds.

But I stayed at that place and here's some more "approaches,"

To a girl sitting next to me on a barstool...
Me: What's your name?
Her: What do you want it to be?
Me: Steve
Her: Okay, it's Steve.
Me: Great, I'm Samantha.

To another girl at the bar
Me: Why are you wearing a nose ring?
Her: Why not?
Me: I don't know......

Me: How's your night going?
Her: (gives me the "OK" sign with her fingers without even saying a word)

I could total about 10, but they are all basically like this....

Here's some questions....

Why am I getting attitudes from complete strangers?

But it comes clear after a short while of talking to them (the few seconds of the "opener") that these questions need to be answered....

Who is this guy?
What does he have to offer me? How could he improve my life? Why would I want to be around him?

And then I see a bunch of guys having 3 hour long talks with these girls looking them in the eye the whole time. Groping them and making out. And sometimes, the girls hanging all over them like they are some sort of God.

What do these guys have that I don't?

How do I get there, or can I?

Oh yea, I also bummed about 10 cigarettes from various people, including girls, because I smoke when I drink.

I feel like I give off an antisocial vibe like I have a lot of resentment.

Then you see some guy groping some hot girls ass and almost fingering her up her skirt by the bar and I think "if I did that, I would get arrested." But I would sure like to. How do I get her to want me to?

Any help?

I also saw some guy pull up in a Rolls Royce with a hot girl that was probably 20-30 years younger than him.

And besides the fact if I can have 10 little minor "openers," this leads to..... what do I have to say of any substance after that? Why would they want me around? And how do I change into a person that they would want to have around? Girls are generally very picky about who they let into their lives, but if you are the right person, they will (depending on the girl) treat you like a God.

And I might be wrong, but I think a perfect 10 was giving me eyes when I walked by. She was with a guy. Maybe it was her boyfriend, maybe not. And I mean like a TEN, like she was the hottest girl there in a place of about 100 hot girls. I wish I would have had my shit together. This just goes to show that if you go out enough and dress well, you might get lucky. The only people that get "lucky" are those that have put a lot of work to put themselves in positions to get "lucky."

Oh yea.... one more opener I forgot until just now...

Me (to a hot girl): Have you ever heard that the position the moon is in when you are born can affect a persons personality throughout their life?
Her: Did you just pull that out of your ass?
Me: No, actually some girl told me it. She knew a lot more about it than me..... *crickets*....

Hey, but at least she talked to me. It's good to know that you won't just be completely ignored and that they will at least return what you say with some words of English most of the time.

Now if I could answer this question, I think I would be golden: Why would these girls want me around? And I know it has nothing to do with a Lamborghini.

To all of the people on this forum.... Why do the girls in your life want you around? What do you do for them? What do you have to offer them?

(See.... I'm learning!!!.... now nobody can call me a troll and I do believe that is "the trenches," although I could have done a lot better)

Also, I'm going to hit my friend up and see if he wants to go out with me. I see this guy talking to girls all the time. I hope I don't embarrass myself. He has a lot more vibrant of a personality than me. I hope it doesn't turn into a situation where I'm "the quiet guy."

You mentioned your "vibe". I think this is one of the most, if not THE most important qualities you can have when talking to anybody. The best possible vibe you can have is to take NOTHING seriously.






Me (to a hot girl): Have you ever heard that the position the moon is in when you are born can affect a persons personality throughout their life?
Her: Did you just pull that out of your ass?
Me: No, actually some magical gypsie just told me it. I was getting my fucking fortune read, it costed me like 4000$, thank you very much.


This conversation could lead ANYWHERE at this point..she could ask you about the gypsie, she could ask you about YOUR fortune, she could ask you why or how you saw a gypsie, or why it costed you so much. Either way, by taking nothing seriously, it significantly removes all pressure from the situation.

I've worked on it for about a few months, and it takes just a little bit of time to master. But everyone will love your vibe, and AMOGs will look like retards when they try to shit talk you.


Also, a great way to have openers is to just make OBSERVATIONS! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GqhFGC2yy_4

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Okay but after having a 30 second conversation about gypsies, don't you have to say something of substance?