Hey guys, I was hoping to get some input on a situation I was in on saturday.

To make the story short, I met a girl at a house party. We were really into each other, her more than me actually. We were vibing great all night, we ended up kissing about 2 hours into the night. Just a few short make out sessions, nothing huge. This was her house and I stayed back after most of the people left, hoping to seal the deal in her room. She ended up kind of saying ok well im gonna goto bed now, basically saying I should head home.

Did I not establish enough comfort towards the end? There was immense attraction between us. What are the right things to say to make her feel comfortable enough? She also seemed a bit tense when we would kiss..

what's your guys take on this?

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fellow san diego sargers hit me up

Girls can sence what you want from them and thats why you have to play the game. You have to let her know that you want her, but not enough to stay the night, in this case if you played your cards right she would be begging you to stay the night. In my opinion she sensed what you wanted from her and backed off since you were easy. Remember, use bait and go fishing

Yeah that sounds like what happened..

so what kind of attitude should I have had? what should I have said?

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fellow san diego sargers hit me up

Ive never fckclosed on the first time, or even spend the night on the first time apon meeting so Im not going to give bad advice. Read the forums, there's usefull stuff everywhere, try new things and report back

It hurts when you get rejected, it hurts even more when you dont try and look back on it later and ask yourself "Maybe that's what she wanted?" (You did try, but now that you're more frequently on the forum, try new things! thats the key)

Yeah thats the same problem I made. When you start making out at one point you should have stopped and said "we should slow down a little bit". Therefore making it seem like you don't just care about sex. Like I met a girl once at a club and when we were dancing and her spaghetti strap started rising up. I took the liberty of pulling it back down for her. That scored me points with the girl. I number closed that night. unfortunately nothing came of it cause she lived too far. Hey nukim do u live in s.d? Where are the spots you frequent? Im new to pua but I am learning fast. Any pointers will help