I'm wondering what it's like to be a woman and get hunted in the middle of the day. What I mean by "hunt" here is that just another normal day, some guy comes up to this girl in the convenience store and tries to talk to her. I hope women will answer this question but I know female repliers don't seem to exist here so the chances are very slim but what does it feel like to be stopped by a stranger trying to have a conversation? You females get flattered by that or totally creeped out? I bet it depends on the way this guy talks.

I think it's better to hear from a female adviser on this than a male. So I can put myself in the "hunted" position.

I'm sick of regretting things. Yesterday, I saw the most beautiful woman from a distance. I've never seen a girl with a grey sweatpants looking so fly before. I was sitting by the bus stop and spotted her going into the convenience store. Before this happens, she saw me sitting on the bus stop chair so I figured it would be creepy to follow her to the convenience store after she noticed the fact I'm waiting for the bus. So nothing happened. I just kept sitting doing nothing. Later, she came out of the store, I just watched her sweatpants butt walk away from the scene. Now I'm thinking back, I would rather have been a creep trying at least something than sitting here writing this story.

Next time, if this happens again with a different girl, I want to be ready for it by expecting the unexpected. But when I do hunt for a women, I'd prefer it to be as natural as it can be. Asking a stranger "Do I know you from somewhere?" sounds natural to me but "damn, you look fine gurl." will lead this hunt to fail. I don't want to look like a some kind of douchebag. My point here is just, let's talk about some hunting, Shall we?

Bet way to answer this question:

You know those people that stop you in the street to sell you something? Most of the time I don't want to stop and tell them I'm busy or whatever.

They're gonna have to find some way to wow me to get my attention, otherwise they're just a nuisance.

And preferably, their product is gonna have to be something that I actually want, otherwise I've just stopped for no reason.

So basically, ask yourself: - what would somebody have to do to stop you in the street and get you're attention?
- how would that person wow you?
- what would that person's general mannerisms be like? smooth and confident or creepy and weird?
- what would that person have to sell you that you want?

Then you might be able to understand it better from the woman's point of view.

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Actually, it's a bit different. The purpose of those guys who stop you in the street to sell stuff is to get money. They stop you for money, not by your attractiveness. Hunting might be different from this because the hunted actually can feel flattered because she can confirm again that she's pretty. It can give off optimistic vibes. But I guess, talking to a female stranger in the street could be desperate and creepy. But in the store, however, I think it's a good place to go.
By the way, I thought you were a woman but then I noticed your ID says "guy".

It's the same but different. You're both selling something only difference is you (the PUA) are selling your personality - confidence, charisma and positivity. These are key salesman attributes.

From the seduction point of view, there is also dominance and masculinity. So this is one of the main differences.

But you wanna lose creepiness, the bottom line is, you got to bring value.
I'm actually the guy in the avatar. I assumed you were looking for both male and female responses.

Btw, listen to women's perspective by all means. But they often have a misunderstanding of what attributes they are actually attracted to. E.g. they may see a gesture like buying a drink as chivalry, but actually the frame you are coming from is dominance (hunter / alpha male provision). It's similar to how a guy thinks a girl's attractive but that's just because she's got all the make up on, so he doesn't see her natural beauty. In both cases, it is the illusion that they are buying into, not the actual product.

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Wow, that's deep. Thanks, I think I learned something today

Its not what you say, its how you say it man.

You can deliver a cheesy line like " Damn you look great." in such a way that it will illicit a positive response, and you can also delver the same line in a way that get you slapped or completely ignored. The tone is more important than the words leaving your mouth. Theres ways to say "Fuck you" to girls and make them laugh, or turn them off. Its not so much the words, as it is how the words are delivered.

And in my opinion you don't need to ask women how it feels to be approached. Just ask all of the guys on the site and anyone you know that has skill with women how it feels to approach a strange woman, get her number, and sleep with her a couple days later.

Being in their shoes can give you some insight, but I don't think it will give you any thats necessary. The truth of the matter is. Women are out their getting approached every day, some terribly, some by a great guy, and some of these women are sleeping with the guys that approach them. What more do you need to know?

You're either going to wait for life to come to you, or you're going to go after it on your own. You'll be an average "follow the societal norms " or one that lives life on the edge. The guy that expands his comfort zones and goes after we he wants in life.

You'll get rejected lots of times, you'll get numbers that go absolutely no where, you'll get unreturned phone calls, but you'll also get laid. You'll develop higher levels of fortitude and charisma. You'll be happier, but it will become more difficult for others to get under your skin after all of the rejection you've dealt with.

I'd say stop asking questions and just do it. If you're in a city, there is a woman worth approaching everytime you step out of your door.

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Attractive guys approaches = she is flattererd her and it makes her day
Creepy guy approaches = she feels harassed and offended

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At the end of the day I guess that's the truth. Love your avatar, by the way.