Hey guys. I've been taking PUA more seriously since the last month or so. I've been going out at night more often with friends and have little trouble approaching women then and even got a few k- and #-closes lately. The downside of nightgame is that you're dependent on going out to bars or clubs at night. I usually drink a fair amount with friends and feel like crap the day after. ("well then don't drink" yeah i know, i know..) It would be cool to be able to approach women during the day as well.

The thing is, this feels SO weird when you're not used to it. Do you just randomly approach women in the street? Do you talk to them at uni in the library? The thing about nightgame is that lots of kino can be used early, but you can't exactly do that in a library. So daygame seems significantly different from nightgame in this aspect.
On the other hand, just talking with someone and asking their number afterwards doesn't sound that weird either.. I don't know, it's mostly because I'm not used to it I guess. It's such a different environment than in a club.

Any tips how to get into it? I know of the newbie mission, but I don't really feel like planning a day out just to go to a mall to say hi to girls, like one of those elderly greeting people they have at Wallmart (saw it on south park.. don't know if this is actually a thing).

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You just gotta do it man.

If you can do it at night, this is just one push beyond that. It ain't weird at all, it only sounds weird to the guys that haven't done it enough to see how not weird it actually is.

After the first 2 approaches, it won't be a big deal. Try your best to get two done within the same 5 minutes. You'll pretty much go on auto pilot after that. Now if you do 2 in one hour, you'll never actually give yourself a concentrated amount of time to warm up. It would be like trying to cook a hot pocket in the micro wave by warming it for 30 seconds every 10 minutes. It'll never get hot. Even if you end up warming it a total of 20 minutes over the course of a few hours. Those breaks constantly cool it down.

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What Eddie said...

The general trend for people that only do night game, They seem to depend on the alcohol crutch.

Same vice versa, the day game guys rely too much on verbal and are never physical enough.

Find the balance. Don't rely on other people or substances. You have to do it raw to grow. Put your balls ON THE LINE.

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I'd also refrain from drinking to much coffee or surger as well, also stabilized you breathing.

Night game from my point of view is not the greatest in many ways compared to day game. The number one thing with day game is that she's sober.

That's why I suck at day game

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I just wanted to say that I really like this advice. I find that getting warmed up for me is hard (because I'm a pussy) but once I'm warmed up it's easy. There's been a few times where I've ended up walking around a mall for an hour until my balls start to work. There's been other days where I can just talk to people.

Simple 30 has a challenge where you approach 10 girls in a row with out waiting more than 30 seconds inbetween each girl. I think once you do this you'd be a pretty fucking hot hotpocket. Women would take a bite of you and then get burned, stick an icecube in their mouths, and wake up with a sensitive mouth the following morning (I have no idea where I'm going with this).

Also, a problem that I had is that it's daygame, not hide the salami. Don't go indirect and then ask her out. Start direct. It's also just easier after a while.

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Awesome advice everyone. But would be a good spot to get the quick approaches and get the rhythm going during the day...mall, college?

I get insecure when there's others around or listening to my convo. That's another thing I'm working on.

Thanks for the replies guys. Yeah, I should really give it a go. By the way, by no means am I "good" at night game. Just getting better and getting over the AA, because approaching girls at night now feels normal.
Pushing myself into day game would be great, since it means I wouldn't be restricted to only sarging in bars and clubs. For example, for the last week I haven't been able to go out at night and I already feel myself getting out of shape a bit.

@SoMuchInLove I know, that's one reason that approach anxiety exists. But that's all rooted in the thought that it matters what some random people think of you. In reality you shouldn't give a f*** what people think of you at all. The ironic thing is that people will actually respect you for that and think you're a cool guy.

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Daygame start up kit :

1. Well groomed. Presentable style.

2. Have a life, be grounded in your beliefs(is only weird if you think is weird)

3. Approach.

Disclaimer: Daygame runs smooth, don't draw too much attention to yourself. Make it seem normal. Be discreet.

I find the most uncomfortable part of daygame is the initial "Open"

In which you come out of nowhere. lol i can see how that feels weird. BUT is totally fine.

Tested over and over and proven to work.

Daygame rocks.

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You talk to them like you already know them my brutha. That is LITERALLY all there is to it. They fucking love it. Give it a shot.