Great at opening, better at comfort, dominant body language. My issue seems to be flirting. Can get numbers but nothing comes from them, and the numbers are legit. I really have a problem flirting with girls even after a year of approaches. Any general advice to get more comfortable?

So i think the problem probably isnt your flirting, rather your rapport building. Thats what gets the girl to usually hook for more long term. I dont know the info so im assuming that its rapport from what you have told me.

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Unless you formulate and emotional connection with the women you approach its going to be a bit of a challenge for you to just "know" what to say when it comes time to text them. A lot of guys that have this issue are only focused on getting the number when they approach as some way to validate their egos or impress others. The guys that have the actual success go in to make the connection. I personally don't even want the phone number of a girl that I'm not able to vibe with. Its a waste a time, and anyone that values their time just wouldn't be into it.

And also, when you aren't able to make a connection through one medium try another. If you're not good at building the connections through text, try building them through phone calls. Invite the chick to a video chat. See if you're better at that. Try out different things until you find your strong point, and use that primarily as you're building the other areas.

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Hey brother,

flakes happen because there is usually something missing.

If you say your problem is flirting, I'll believe you.
Really the key to flirting is to relax - it's about keeping it light and fun!
It's the art of making her want to punch you and kiss you at the same time.

Take a deep breath, be curious, ask questions, let her talk and most importantly, allow yourself to be ridiculous!

The other day, I met a stunning blondie walking to the mall. I ran up to her and told her how amazing she looked and she stopped and we began to talk. As we talked, I took her sunglasses off her face and said "I bet these look better on me" then tried them on and did some stupid duckface pose. She giggled and playfully slapped me. In the metro on the way home with my friend and his girlfriend, I sat on the bench next to a cutie. My opener was literally "my friend chose his girlfriend over me, so you're my new best friend now" She laughed and called me a slut.

Point is, dont take yourself so seriously. I know you're funny and crazy with your guy friends, why suppress yourself when around women? Just chill out and have fun. The first law of state transference is that whatever you feel, others feel.

To your success!
Mack

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