Do we really need to put the girl through this for a 17 year olds entertainment? (Or anyones for that matter?)

This girl is clearly religious.

Once this boy takes her virginity, and then subsequently abandons her out of boredom, she may well become suicidal.

Has anyone considered that?

She's been taught her whole life, that once he has taken her virginity she is now worthless. That her life is over before it began. That if she does get married it will only lead to divorce because she was not a virgin at the altar. That she is unworthy of love, unworthy of having a good husband. That she is now dirty. That she is unworthy of God. I have known rape victims who have refused to wear white at their own wedding, because they felt they were too dirty and unworthy.

Do you know how they teach girls in church? They hold up a stick of gum and chew it. Then they take out the gum. They say that after sex you are the chewed piece of gum fit only to be thrown in the trash, because no one wants to re-chew a chewed piece of gum.

He's going to have a quick couple of pop-offs and leave this girl. Leave her believing she is a chewed up piece of gum that no one will ever want again.

Do we really need to put the girl through this for a 17 year olds entertainment? (Or anyones for that matter?)

This girl is clearly religious.

Once this boy takes her virginity, and then subsequently abandons her out of boredom, she may well become suicidal.

Has anyone considered that?

She's been taught her whole life, that once he has taken her virginity she is now worthless. That her life is over before it began. That if she does get married it will only lead to divorce because she was not a virgin at the altar. That she is unworthy of love, unworthy of having a good husband. That she is now dirty. That she is unworthy of God. I have known rape victims who have refused to wear white at their own wedding, because they felt they were too dirty and unworthy.

Do you know how they teach girls in church? They hold up a stick of gum and chew it. Then they take out the gum. They say that after sex you are the chewed piece of gum fit only to be thrown in the trash, because no one wants to re-chew a chewed piece of gum.

He's going to have a quick couple of pop-offs and leave this girl. Leave her believing she is a chewed up piece of gum that no one will ever want again.

Do we really need to put the girl through this for a 17 year olds entertainment? (Or anyones for that matter?)

Lets do the numbers on the amount of girls that actually commit suicide after losing their virginity...

Yes, I have known ones who had to go on anti-depressants after a break up because they though they were now "used goods."

Because when the guy leaves she believes he has abandoned her because he thinks she's "dirty" and "a whore."

Something along the lines of
- I have made you dirty, and now that you're dirty, I don't want you anymore.
- You're no longer good enough for me since I took your virginity.

How can you NOT know this? Do you not have a sister? Or parents? Have never been to church?

And we haven't even touched on the subject of what the religious fanatic parents are going to do to their daughter when they find out she is no longer a virgin. This girl could be slapped down and/or kicked out of her home. You can count on one thing. All hell is going to break loose.

And where will Iamjuanquinones be when the shit hits the fan?
When her parents are screaming and throwing furniture? Will he be there to defend and protect her?

No, he will gone up the road onto some other mischief.

Why ruin a girls life? Can't he find some easy slutty girl who won't be destroyed?

Why ruin a girls life? Can't he find some easy slutty girl who won't be destroyed?

We prefer the term "sexually liberated" around here. Calling women slutty is degrading and shouldn't be tolerated.

What the hell are you doing here?

There is no point in trying to tear someone away from their religious moorings so you can have a fling with them. What a waste!

There are men here who would dream to marry a loyal virgin one day, with a hot body, and what a shame if it's messed up by some 17 year old prick. You wouldn't even know what to do with her! Pearls before swine.

You haven't said anything about love or wanting a future with this girl. It sounds like you are saying you only want to sleep with her to "get your investment back" and plan on dumping her right after. She is smart to reject you, as you wouldn't appreciate it anyway.

You want a quick easy fuck go to the neighborhood whore, kid. If you destroy this girls moral foundations and she's only going to resent you.

Leave the beautiful virgin so that a grown ass man with a good job can take her and make a good wife of her. Such a prize is wasted on you.