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Pajo
 Post subject: Re: Probably nothing
PostPosted: Tue Jun 23, 2015 10:17 pm 
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Hey guys,

I just need some quick advice, just to be sure that I'm on the right way.
So I'm in this relationship for 2 years.

I've send her this funny picture and said that so her, (the picture was about girls these days on instagram who tag almost everything they do).

This was our conversation

Her: Haha, you don't know me at all. (monkeyface)
Me: Haha, yea sure, I know you better then you think.
Her: No, you only see the bad things about me.
Me: Then show me your "good" side.
Her: I've showed you them, too bad.
Me: Next time show them better.
Her: I like the way I am, I don't want to change myself.
Me: I didn't ask you to change yourself. Anyways, I'm going to sleep. (It was like 2 AM)

She responded like 20 minutes later with: Goodnight babe kiss.

Normaly she sends me a morning message but this time she didn't.
I didn't send her a message either, I kind of waited for her to send it.
And now I'm kinda thinking to call her, just to talk a bit and ask what she's been up to. (We are in a long distant relationship).

It's probably nothing but hey, I thought I wanted to share this with you guys and hear your opinion.
For me it's important to be in the game even when you're in a relationship.

Thanks in advance, and goodluck gaming!
I gotta say, sometimes I read the way people communicate in relationships and it's so passive aggressive and unhealthy.... This does not sound like a conversation after sending her a funny picture. If I had sent my gf a funny pic and she said you dont know me at all, my response would be what the hell are you talking about?! And if she says I only see the bad things in her?!? Sorry, but something is weird here...sounds like you criticize the girl alot, or she's just lying. Either way it's just messed up and weird
I don't criticize her, I just don't give her much compliments.
She was kidding, atleast that what it looked like but later after her next respond she was kind of serious.
Seriously, I have no fucking clue what is wrong with her. It's probably something that I did wrong, maybe I didn't show her enough attention or whatsoever. Although it is hard to give attention when were in a long distant relationship.

Anyways, I'm going to visit her country (my country also) in July so I then I can try to figure out what the fuck is wrong. I'm cool, I kind of started to not give a fuck anymore. I think it's because even though I'm in a relationship I still keep in contact with other female "friends".
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PostPosted: Wed Jun 24, 2015 12:59 am 
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Hey guys,

I just need some quick advice, just to be sure that I'm on the right way.
So I'm in this relationship for 2 years.

I've send her this funny picture and said that so her, (the picture was about girls these days on instagram who tag almost everything they do).

This was our conversation

Her: Haha, you don't know me at all. (monkeyface)
Me: Haha, yea sure, I know you better then you think.
Her: No, you only see the bad things about me.
Me: Then show me your "good" side.
Her: I've showed you them, too bad.
Me: Next time show them better.
Her: I like the way I am, I don't want to change myself.
Me: I didn't ask you to change yourself. Anyways, I'm going to sleep. (It was like 2 AM)

She responded like 20 minutes later with: Goodnight babe kiss.

Normaly she sends me a morning message but this time she didn't.
I didn't send her a message either, I kind of waited for her to send it.
And now I'm kinda thinking to call her, just to talk a bit and ask what she's been up to. (We are in a long distant relationship).

It's probably nothing but hey, I thought I wanted to share this with you guys and hear your opinion.
For me it's important to be in the game even when you're in a relationship.

Thanks in advance, and goodluck gaming!
I gotta say, sometimes I read the way people communicate in relationships and it's so passive aggressive and unhealthy.... This does not sound like a conversation after sending her a funny picture. If I had sent my gf a funny pic and she said you dont know me at all, my response would be what the hell are you talking about?! And if she says I only see the bad things in her?!? Sorry, but something is weird here...sounds like you criticize the girl alot, or she's just lying. Either way it's just messed up and weird
I don't criticize her, I just don't give her much compliments.
She was kidding, atleast that what it looked like but later after her next respond she was kind of serious.
Seriously, I have no fucking clue what is wrong with her. It's probably something that I did wrong, maybe I didn't show her enough attention or whatsoever. Although it is hard to give attention when were in a long distant relationship.

Anyways, I'm going to visit her country (my country also) in July so I then I can try to figure out what the fuck is wrong. I'm cool, I kind of started to not give a fuck anymore. I think it's because even though I'm in a relationship I still keep in contact with other female "friends".

Why not just end it then?
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PostPosted: Wed Jun 24, 2015 1:48 pm 
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Why not just end it then?
Why would I? Isn't it better for me to keep fucking her and gain experience in sex with her.
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Why not just end it then?
Why would I? Isn't it better for me to keep fucking her and gain experience in sex with her.

Yeah but let's be real though...the time, energy and money to maintain a ldr is much more than it would take to be with and have sex with another girl. Keeping a ldr for fucking purposes is rather inefficient.
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PostPosted: Wed Jun 24, 2015 2:28 pm 
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Why not just end it then?
Why would I? Isn't it better for me to keep fucking her and gain experience in sex with her.

Yeah but let's be real though...the time, energy and money to maintain a ldr is much more than it would take to be with and have sex with another girl. Keeping a ldr for fucking purposes is rather inefficient.
Why not fuck her when I visit my her and fuck other girls at home?
I live in The Netherlands but I'm from Serbia and she live in Serbia.
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Why not fuck her when I visit my her and fuck other girls at home?
I live in The Netherlands but I'm from Serbia and she live in Serbia.
Because as long as "you have her" you won't go out meeting other women with the same drive you would if you didn't.

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PostPosted: Sat Jul 18, 2015 6:53 pm 
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So I found out what the problem was.

I've been draging her now for 1 or 2 years now and that has come to an end.
What i mean with draging is that whenever I left the country I never really had contact with her anymore because I didn't want to and she was always emotionally not prepared for that. This happened alteast 7-10 times and she got tired of it. She always wanted to be my girlfriend but I always had an excuse for it. (for example lets give it a bit more time or why did you break up the first time)
What her final reason was to stop being with me was that I didn't mentioned her in my summer plans.

Now I feel bad because when I've found out that she' s not interested in me anymore I just want to get her back. This is a real big lesson for me and I wish that I didn't had to go all this bullshit. She is a great girl with a great heart and she did really love me and I played with her heart for a long time.

I'm posting this so that YOU won't make a big mistake as I did.

Yes, there are more fish in the sea but it sucks to let yours lose.
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PostPosted: Mon Jul 20, 2015 7:37 am 
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She's fucking another guy.

Joking.


I really don't condone LDRs. Have fun this summer but you may wanna break it off it this LDR status doesn't change soon.


Anyway, you're overthinking the whole next morning message thing. Paris shuttle transportationAt the same time she doesn't seem entirely happy. When women take an obvious joke to this kind of semi-deep level they have something they're not pleased with, emotionally speaking. This applies to long term relationships, not 2-3 weeks in.


Personally I don't think it's something to worry about per se, just be aware of what's up.
your reply is nice and so funny as i think. you know It's likely a casing control thing Ladies dependably attempt to take back the "control" of the relationship...and they do it by
doing little poop test..like what you
just mentioned...hold your ground
content her later with something fun loving
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 23, 2015 4:16 pm 
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So I found out what the problem was.

I've been draging her now for 1 or 2 years now and that has come to an end.
What i mean with draging is that whenever I left the country I never really had contact with her anymore because I didn't want to and she was always emotionally not prepared for that. This happened alteast 7-10 times and she got tired of it. She always wanted to be my girlfriend but I always had an excuse for it. (for example lets give it a bit more time or why did you break up the first time)
What her final reason was to stop being with me was that I didn't mentioned her in my summer plans.

Now I feel bad because when I've found out that she' s not interested in me anymore I just want to get her back. This is a real big lesson for me and I wish that I didn't had to go all this bullshit. She is a great girl with a great heart and she did really love me and I played with her heart for a long time.

I'm posting this so that YOU won't make a big mistake as I did.

Yes, there are more fish in the sea but it sucks to let yours lose.
Stop being an apologist.

You didn't commit to her for a reason. If she was so wonderful you would have. Now you're pining because she ended things.

So you went away and had no contact with her - I'm not saying that's the 'right' thing to do but if you truly thought she was such a catch I guarantee you would have gone about things differently.

Now that you feel all dejected you're lamenting losing her?

Come on man, GET REAL!
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