Hello guys

so long story short, i saw that HB9 , passing by me while doing her usual jogging then i decided not to let this poor chick go away without getting a chance to know me , especially because i have seen a bunch of guys following her without having the courage to approach ...

i turned around and went for the approach , she had earphone stopped to hear what i had to say , i was direct i told her that i found her cute and couldn't let her go without talking to me first, she started smiling and then we had a pretty long convo while walking together , then i told her that i have to go meet a friend and got her fb close ( yea she was persistent , i never do those ) told her i would send her a msg at night otherwise i wouldn't talk to her because i don't use fb ( she sent me a msg on fb from her ipad before leaving her).

late that night i responded then we had a little conversation , and told her that i am not the kind of guys that like to chat a lot and i prefer talking in person , gor her Number and then told her that i would call her next time because i was tired working on a big project ( still working on it by the way the design process is time consuming , i hope there's an architect in the forum haha)

next day i called we talked a lot then finally set up a date , on the date day she surprisingly sent me a msg saying that she had a head ache and couldn't make it and apologized another time on SPAM since i didn't answer her text, i told her that's fine and that's it guys.

this happened last Friday , and since then no sign of life from her whenever i meet a girl who is interested genuinely in me she would initiate a conversation or reschedule , but in this case nothing at all not even another SPAM msg ... i feel like nexting her i don't really like spending time managing this flake however i would like to have your insights dear friends ! ( Ps. i live in a samller town than before wich make the few available hotties a rare merchandise , i don't want to be just like the other guys who chase her all the time i want to ignore her for a week or two and see her reaction what do you think guys )

The most risk but high value- just leave it and let her get back to you.

Low risk but a needy - "you never write, you never call, rent is overdue and the kids want their mummy, what shall I tell them? ;p "

High risk, high reward - "if you're this quiet during sex then this will be awkward as fuck ;p"

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Dude this is gold , it was a long time i haven't been in here fixing some other stuff in my life besides game
i would go for option one but all three seems gold to me

Hey brother,

Let me tell you a story that might help you.

It happened two years ago almost.
I was dropping off some files at my old office, and then got on the elevator. On it was an incredibly sexy, busty, blonde blue eyed girl. She was super classy and very feminine, in a black summer dress. I was instantly smitten.

I ignored her because I had a meeting to get to, so I walked off, kicking myself for missing the opportunity, but the universe likes to troll me sometimes. I got out of my meeting which was 2 blocks down from the office building. Next to the complex, there's a green space with benches and trees. When I walked out, I saw her sitting there, alone, reading a book.

I walked up, sat with her and told her she looks amazing. We spoke for two hours. She was super cool, very spiritual, just my type really. I gave her my number and told her to call... And she never did.

I bumped into her by chance almost 3 months later. We had sex, and afterwards I asked why she never called. She said something amazing: "I really liked you, but you were too good at this. If I called, I knew I would just be one of the many girls who call you, and I just didnt wanna feel that way".

Mind. Blown.

She wants to feel special man, that's all. She wants to know you're not like every other idiot that chases her and is easily discouraged. Fuck all this PUA shit, supplication nonsense - it's all a way for guys to hide being their ego because they fear rejection.

What do you want? If her, call her up man. Call her up, tell her an awesome story that happened to you today, laugh and joke together and tell her you want to take her to that really cool hole in the wall tea place you've always wanted to check out.

Life is beautiful mate, dont complicate things!

To your success,
Mack

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Hello dear friend

I am nôt sure about whether She as interested as your hot blonde i would never Know for sûre , but either ways i don't give it a damn Shit , nôt carring about pua Stuff but it would just help me nôt look like a needy bitch And beg her for another date ... I am too busy to lose my Time on a lost cause , but at thé same Time another call would nôt kill me nor my ego , i am sûre She would nôt call me later i hâve a strange feeling when this happéns so my last card would be to call if She dont mâke a sign of Life ... Thanks for your replies both of you guys

That's exactly my point! You don't know how she feels.

I used to find some rejections SO weird. Like you just KNOW this girl likes you - you can see it in her eyes (learn to meditate and pay attention to people, you start to get real good at reading them) and yet she will reject you. It took me a while until one of my girlfriends explained it to me; when I met her she had a boyfriend but really liked me, and she KNEW that if she was nice to me or even let me talk to her, she would do something she regrets. So she shut me down hard (luckily Im a persistent mother f*er).

My point is that you can never take responsibility for her feelings. For all you know, you blew her fucking mind and she cant deal with it.

Either way you'll never know til you call.

Oh PS: stop worrying about seeming needy. I fucking hate that word. Seeming... To whom? Does a man have time to care what others think of him? You're better than that mate. Dont be needy and you wont seem needy.

Let me know how it goes brother

Your fan,
Mack

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Hello Mack

Well this is exactly thé point if i hadnt had That feeling of connection going éven after we spoke on thé phone we were enjoying talking to each other Thérè was no Weird silence , thé first day when we met She éven stopped her jogging And stayed with me for a moment , when you get this feeling And you say to your self i bet this Shit is happening , only thén you feel confused when She rejects you it mâkes you wonder what did you do wrong , usually i CAN sens when thé girl is nôt genuinely interested in meeting i wouldnt éven bother writing a post about it ... I would look forward to do what you did white thé hot blonde with blue êyes ( this one is a réd head with cute smile ) your description of That hottie you had an affair with is stuck to my mind , you Know you could be a gréât friend Man

Good luck in your Life
Neox

Well, this topic got weird fast.
Before you can "not care about PUA stuff", you need to be at a level where your inner game prevents thinking shit like I just quoted in the first place.
Assuming you'll look like a needy bitch begging for a date will make you look like a needy bitch begging for a date. That's not something you consciously switch off. It's something you unconsciously develop. And it wont happen overnight.

Also you can never be 100% non needy or non invested with every single woman out there. You just have to be less invested than she is.
This is the billionaire telling the homeless dude "Yo, stop being poor. Don't be poor and you won't seem poor."
People come onto these forums seeking the "how's" not the "what's". They need to know how they can get rich, not what to act like if they were rich.

And yeah she wants to feel special. To someone she knows is above her. You think that if a guy who can't even stand up straight, look her in the eye or otherwise have a 5 minute conversation without almost getting a heart attack comes up to her and says "I think you're worth knowing" she'll instantly get wet because oh how special she feels now?
You have to become a high quality guy before you can expect high quality women to respond to you in a good way.
Really? You can never take responsibility for her feelings? You can and should almost always take responsibility for her feelings. How you make her feel is the damn core of attraction. Seducing her is all about how she responds to who you are.
What you can't take responsibility for is how she chooses to act on those feelings.

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