I went to my usual venue to run daygame today, feeling slightly depressed and losing confidence from my lack of success with women (especially converting numbers into dates, that's been my major sticking point). By some act of god, I got the number of an HB9 on my second approach, not 20 minutes upon entering the store. I've only been learning game for a couple months, have about ~150 cold approaches under my belt and usually get numbers of girls in the 6 range, so this is a first for me.

I already know the important stuff I'll need to keep in mind IF I can get her on date (maintaining frame despite how hard that may be with a woman of this caliber). When we exchanged numbers, I did my usual thing where I called her so she had my number, but forgot to feel out what days she is available and forgot to let her know that I would be calling in a few days.

However, I did remember to tell her I was going home for summer vacation this weekend so we should hang out after that. Thing is, I'll be gone the next 2 weekends at home for summer vacation (from this Thursday until July 5th).

I know girls can sense the desperation that comes when you cancel plans for them, but I'm strongly considering calling her on Tuesday to set up a Thursday night meet and pushing my flight back one day to Friday (if she agrees to meeting on Thursday of course).

I fear that if I wait to set up a meet for 2 weeks, I'm finished. Do I have any viable alternatives here, or is the plan I proposed my best option?

EDIT: I have not texted or made any contact with her since getting the number. I'm waiting until Tuesday to giver her a call to set up the Thursday meet.

You're screwing yourself from the outset as soon as you say she's better than you and "by some act of God" you got her number. You later reference her "caliber".

Seriously. Get out of this mind space or you're fucked. Visualize her taking a shit or throwing up if you have to.

Secondly - why would you wait for Tuesday? Don't be lame. What did you read that in a book somewhere? Someone told you to wait several days? Text whenever you want. In fact - call whenever you want (I'd recommend a phone call. Not a text).

The truth is this is a cold approach. She started forgetting you the second you said goodbye. You're defeating yourself by waiting.

You're also already making excuses for your scheduling. Why not after work for a drink this week?

I'm not being hard on you. I'm telling you what you need to do if you want this to work.

Thanks man, I needed the reality check. This is just something that's never happened to me before. I'm used to being the guy watching other dudes with the HB9.

I'll call her tomorrow and try to set up a wednesday night meet.

I agree with whats been said.

Also give this a read: viewtopic.php?f=25&t=190620

_________________
Need Coaching? For 1 on 1 Coaching via SPAM, Phone or Instant Messenger - Email: EddieFews@Gmail.com

Show Support, Buy The Book: 'The Secret Laws Of Social Wisdom - Click Here

http://www.EddieFews.com