I am currently renting a room in a much older woman's house until the fall when my lease begins. Went on a first date last week that went well. We ended at a bar where i had one beer and she just had water (says she's on a diet for another few weeks). Kissed a bit as we were leaving and I asked to go watch movie/hang at her place (imposing since I live 30 mins away). She had the plethora of excuses "my room is not clean" etc. Texted me a few minutes after we left saying "sorry but i'm not trying to avoid hanging out. you don't get to see my room just yet". Called a few days later and set up a 2nd date for this week where she suggests the city I'm in as she also works there. Assuming everything goes well again is it cool to ask her over for (whatever reason...still not drinking)? or should I end it on a good note, not ask, then 3rd date have her over for dinner or something?

Also, this house has many guests so the cooking dinner could get weird. How do you suggest their place without coming off as creepy (I've always had my own place btw)

A better note is inviting her over your place. You have to be very tactful to go over her place. Lots of girls will be creeped out by you pushing so hard for it, especially when they are okay with going to your place. So, invite her over to watch something on your computer or show her something in your room. I used to have a bunch of comfort photos that I showed girls, which made the whole set run smoothly. Can you have guests at this old lady's place?

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Creepy is in your delivery man.

Its just a house man. You've already proposed it; so it wouldn't be completely random. The only thing that will come across as creepy is the weak tone you deliver your proposition in if you aren't sure of what you are saying. And you don't have to "cook" dinner, this isn't a movie. Invite her over for a movie and some take out.

Confidence will push you through. A woman is always looking to you to tell her how she should feel about what you're doing. if you're sure about yourself she will be sure about the direction you're leading her in.

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