I have to disagree with you D.

I always tell guys, you can't control a womans body, but you can control her mind. Sex can amplify a good relationship, but there is no way in hell you have to be good at sex to maintain the emotional state of your woman. A woman is more likely to be concerned with a mans reaction to a performance problem than she is to the problem itself. It is the mans reaction(if there is one) and confidence about WHATEVER it is that he does that will determine how she feels about him in the relationship. Women are FOLLOWING a man fueled with enough confidence, faith and self belief. They follow what he thinks, more than they follow what they think. So if I 2 pump and cum every night, but to my core I BELIEVE that it was amazing and project that frame onto the woman she has no choice but to submit to the strength of my masculine influence.

I dealt ED for a year and some change. I could have sex easily with women I didn't care for, but when it came to girls that I actually liked, my man parts just wouldn't work. The women that I felt insecure around after the ED all became insecure about me. The women that i felt strong around - " I don't give a shit if I couldn't get hard. I'm still the shit" all responded positively and laughed it off and joked with me about it. I was even in a relationship for over a year with a girl that I only fucked once while drunk, and couldn't get it up after that for the whole year. I ended up leaving her for another woman and she was crushed.

It is a mans power and frame that he projects that will determine how a woman feels about him. His frame, and mentally is what she needs to feel lead. Sex can only amplify that, but a mans mindset alone is strong enough (if he knows it) to make a woman follow him to the ends of the earth.
There aren't enough men offering "good sex" out there for every woman to go find someone who can give it to her. That many sexually powerful men don't exist so that logic is also flawed. IF they all went looking for someone who could the larger percentage of them would come up short.

So my point is, A powerful mindset is enough to keep a woman regardless of whether you are fucking her or not. Control her mind, don't try to control her body.

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Derron Fox gets it. Keep her hamster spinning by being unpredictable + be better in bed.

OP, my take is you're presenting a challenge during courtship and then slowly becoming less and less of a challenge as the relationship solidifies, until you are no challenge whatsoever. This is a dead zone for modern LTR's. The woman has to always feel an underlying current that you will be gone if she doesn't act right. Yes, you want to be the stability in her life, the rock. But you need to communicate through your actions that other women want that stability from you, and that should your woman fuck around, you're gone.

It's called "maintenance game." Look it up. Most guys think that getting the relationship ends the game. Which is why they keep getting dumped and keep coming back here.

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You must be overconfident and cocksure, even if you haven't got a god damn thing in the world going for you. And you must fail with women until you do not fear the possibility of failure, whereupon you will succeed wildly.

Eddie, I think this is quite a hard sell on your inner game products and/or services. Becoming good in bed isn't really trying to control a woman's body. It is, in fact, improving a man's body and mind.

1. To keep a man's cock resilient and hard at the standard time frame to bring a woman to ONE vaginal orgasm, he has to build up his testosterone through proper diet, exercise and being very competitive.

2. Majority of men pop their loads within two minutes. It is just plain easier to desensitize the penis head through natural, non-chemical means than learning how to control a woman's mind. This is understandable from a marketing perspective since you can charge at a premium for your woman mind control learning services.

3. Learning a woman's anatomy is a good intellectual exercise to keep a man's mind sharp as well as gaining the necessary knowledge to consistently give women multiple vaginal orgasms by knowing which pussy spots to keep on pounding on at the right duration.

4. Most men focus on building up muscles instead of working out for good health. Good health mainly involves not only developing strong muscles but also developing a good heart and a good pair of lungs. Thus, I usually advice good cardio exercises to improve men's bedroom skills.

Come on man. Helping men improve their overall health so they can sustain happy and healthy relationships is not bad at all.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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1) Have goals that you work on that are bigger than your relationship
there should be a "knowing" that she doesn't come first..your goals do.

2) Maintain your attraction...at no point in your relationship is it OK to
be needy and anything else that isn't attractive...when I have done this
I can feel the sudden shift in communication and attraction

3) Don't get dumped by having other female friends ready to date you
as soon as your girlfriend decides to leave you...even if you have to fake
it...tell her how this girl at work today tried to pick you up and stuff like
that from time to time...this lets her know that you don't depend on her

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