Hello guys, its been a long time since I've posted here. Hope you're all doing great.
So my issue is with this girl at my university (HB9 and she has a Mercedes Class E coupe car very high class). I met her through a friend of mine, approached her and everything was going smooth. I built attraction and started teasing games and some cocky funny stuff at first, she responded well, so we started seeing each other on campus.

Our second meeting was with her and her best friend, i started storytelling (I'm fairly good at it ) so they responded pretty well for it , I DHV'ed and kept building attraction and some funny stories... no comfort so far. during this second meeting i had great preselection from other girls on campus since i know a lot of them. ( btw i'm a fourth year and my target is first year..)
Long story short, we met another time the next week also with her best friend, did some story telling and had preselection to the point where they left because i was talking to another girl.


The next time we met (still on campus no dates) I saw her alone so i went to her and isolated her. we sat on a bench on campus and started talking.. built some comfort ( i usually do comfort on dates..) and then while we were talking abt favorite food, deserts... I brought the subject of a very well known ice cream place in my country, she said she never went there yet.. i teased her about it for a bit ( "i shouldn't be sitting with you" kind of tease..) then i told her that i could take her there, so she said yes. So i changed subject and we continued talking some random stuff, then i went to take her number. (it was friday..and the next monday was the last day of the semester). So she said what do u want my number for, i told her u know why (with an obvious smile) so she said on Monday I'll let you know. (i thought she was playing hard to get). so i joked about it and told her im not gona be able to sleep at night and stuff like that..(I was shocked though).. then went to meet our friends, so before she left i told her:
ME: im waiting for you on monday
HER: I said I'll think about it i didnt say it's a sure thing.
ME: we'll see..

On monday (The big day for me lol ), i went to campus, i saw her car in the parking.. so i went to my classes and at the time we usually meet (10:00 am) i stood there on campus talking to some friends and walking from place to place..entering the cafeteria.. mainly searching for her in the most subtle way ever ( Or so i thought). Still no sign of her, I decided to go to my car get my LAB kit for my next class, so while going there i noticed her car had gone from where it was parked in the morning. So it hit me:
Could she have left without giving me her number?
Is she playing hard to get?
Is that a no for the date or a maybe ?
It got me confused..
I don't have her on Facebook or anywhere on social media, I'm not sure if i should just forget about her but the most important thing is I'm very confident about my game with her ( I know I did great so far) why did this happen ? Is it because she's seeking a rich guy and she finds me average.. ( this superficiality is common with girls in my country lol)
so a bit of background about me :
I'm 6ft 6 fairly athletic body ( I play basketball in my college )
fairly good looking.
I was in an LTR relationship that lasted for almost 3 years and ended like a month and a half ago..

I would really appreciate some advice and if you could point out what i did wrong and anything you could add. I'd be happy to answer questions also.
PS: excuse my English nobody's perfect lol.

thank you for reading

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She's not interested, obviously... I think you probably could have taken the hint after the second time you were with her... She seemed pretty unresponsive to me... You could have saved some time and effort.

In this case I don't really think she was interested in you to begin with. Maybe just not attracted. You won't get every girl every time you want. It happens.

What you could have done better: I think you overused the whole teasing thing. If I were her I'd be sick of the crummy teasing lines and childish playfulness after a certain point.

I'm also not really sure how much you escalated... But if she wasn't attracted to you then it may not have mattered.

Keep at it. Don't get discouraged by one chick.

Hey CharlesFinley I appreciate you reading my post and replying .
I think i missed out on some facts during our meetings. I usually know how to calibrate and i can tell when a girl gets freaked out or not. But the idea is that i got clear IOIs from her like great kino(ie touching my thigh..hands..arms) and she approaches me on breaks..she comes and sits really close .. stuff like that, thats what made me wonder what happen.. i dont get discouraged from one chick, maybe I am overthinking it.
Anyway you got a point, I am definetly not capable of picking up everyone.

PS: ive seen her like 4 times on campus..the fourth was the only interaction where we were alone thats why I asked her out then.

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I think Charles had it right.

You're applying a masculine way of thinking to women when it comes to kino. Pay attention to how men are with other men. You'll notice that men don't touch and sit close to other men when they talk. Then watch women talk to other women. They sit close and there is touching, but it's not meant to be sexual. It's how they form a bond.

You're real clue that she wasn't interested is when you tried to get her phone number. She realized that you guys weren't on the same page(even asked why you wanted it), so she made up an excuse not to give it to you at that moment and not hurt your feelings. Then she hid from you.

Even when women are playing "hard to get", the phone number is something that they will give you if they are interest or even curious.

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@Jack Zero and @Charles Finley
With all due respect (since u r professional PUAs) Y do u bring up the same reason every time a situation like this happpens ?? I've experienced this situation a number of times n believe me lack of attraction is not always the reason a girl wont give her no. Sometimes a girl is under a lot of social pressure. from her frnds, from society (specially in a Muslim society like mine).
So isn't is possible that a girl is attracted but wont give her no. bcoz of social pressure ?? No body talks abuot that even though i think its a crucial reason in many cases

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We can only work with the information provided. Most guys that have a special circumstance, or know that their cultures are different than the majority of people who post here, will include it in the question.

Btw...I'm only semi-pro. Hopefully one day I'll be called up to the big leagues.

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No trying to burst your bubble here, but this wasn't perfect game. A girl that's playing it hard to get will be pretty obvious when doing it.

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Okay Stud, What is your advice for the OP then?

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Hey guys I appreaciate your replies..
Just to be clear, there's a really good chance I will bump into her again somewhere in the area and on campus next semester.
Any advice on whether I should speak to her or just ignore her and game other girls in front of her or anything..

thanks again

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Don't make an ego challenge out of every rejection bro. She's not interested.

Part of it is on you. Here some examples: That's quite cheesy and a "safe" play. Hiding behind your intentions didn't get you very far, did it? You don't have to be full caveman about it but you could've simply said "So you can fall in love with my captivating personality" or something along those lines. Fun, playful and interesting.

Then there's: Yeah, wait for the princess to give you the time of day. As if you don't have anything better to do. You spoke 3 times and she's already so important to you that you're making her the highlight of your Monday? She wants to feel like she's earned it dude. She's got plenty of orbiters following her around.

This: You don't search for her.
Let's entertain the possibility that this wasn't a flake for a moment. She should be the one searching for you around campus, not the other way around. You'd think that little actions like this are silent, but in reality - and to women - they couldn't speak louder. It's not the fact that you're doing them, it's the why you're doing them.
If a woman likes you she'll put herself in a position to be seduced by you. She "promised" she would, so why are you out there trying to do her job? That's not sexy.

Does any of that even matter? At the risk of sounding harsh I'm 95% certain she completely forgot. I'm actually quite certain she didn't have any intention of doing it in the first place but that's besides the point.
The point is your actions reflect your investment levels which are way higher than they should be. You're not being a hunter, you're being a beggar. A few good stories and laughs will make you an entertaining beggar, but a beggar none-the-less.

So focus on becoming a hunter. And forget about this girl. The more you chase the faster she'll run and in your current state not only will you not be catching her, but you'll lose your dignity in the process.

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Thats the only constructive comment I've read so far..
mainly thats what I was looking for here: someone more experienced about the game to point me out to my mistakes and tell me what I should have done
thanks R.C.
we make mistakes so we can learn.

PS I mentioned that I recently got out of a LTR ..i guess thats why i took it out on my ego at first. I still need some time to get back at it.

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Wow, you're welcome then.

Fucking up is the first step towards being good. Keep it up, learn from mistakes and don't lose any sleep.

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How to keep a girl.

Lol my bad CharlesFinley ...that was the second constructive comment

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