| First of all, if I made any mistakes or posted this in the wrong place or something please let me know. Only second time ever posting on a forum.
Also, I've been in Germany as an exchange student so this stuff may not be universal
So two weeks ago (last week was holi fest and totally sucked. Now I know what they mean when they say woman festival. No pickups hardly any Dancing no fights lines so long for drinks you couldn't get any no drugs. I wasted a weekend)
Back to the story. I had just reading the game and mystery method and a few others, so I was decently educated. My host sister (she has a boyfriend, and I like him, so off the table). Despite that just thinking of pickup made me anxious as fuck, so lots of excuses ran through my mind before I even got there. I eventually decided, this is about my host sister, these are all her friends, it would be wrong. (God I'm a pussy). So instead of sarging I drank. And drank. And drank. I counted 3beers 2radlers (like beer but sweet. Kind of a girly drink), and two shots, two vodka shots, and a vodka energy. Finally after like an hour or two everyone had arrived (despite the stereotype of Germans being punctual, they give a new definition to fashionably late). After a while a couple people started dancing, and I joined in. I was the fifth one to start. Everyone else was still sitting, so I went up to some guys and tried to get them to join, and a couple did. As they say, lead the men and you'll lead the women. I've noticed this before, if you try to get the men to dance, even if it doesn't work, major social value. One of my favorite moves now, try it. I'm pretty sure I looked ridiculous, I can only dance when I'm drunk. Despite that I noticed there was just a certain energy. I was the one dancing the most and looking like I was having a good time and such. I didn't sarge whatsoever. The girls approached me. First I think her name was Dragula or draganov or something weird. She wanted me, but I was scared as hell, so we just small talked until she got bored and moved to someone else. She wasn't even an 8 though she was like a 6 or 7. I think by rejecting her I got even more social value. Next the girl imo was hottest there approached me, started dancing, and said "I like your dance moves" (in German of course). A couple of sentences of fluff and paralyzing fear and she moved on. Next a really nice petite hb 9. Brunette, really white, brown eyes and glasses. Somewhere between rock girl and bookworm. We started talking and I really liked her. We had about the same taste in music, I found out, when she said "finally, the good music" when smoke on the water came on. We air guitared together. I dunno, not the same physical attractiveness as the last girl, but much better personality. I could see this girl, henrieke, as a friend or girlfriend. She was really easy to talk to and just everything worked. I said it's too loud and hot in here and took her outside. A little more fluff, then I tried mystery's kiss gambit. Then I freaked, I mean really freaked. Whatever I tried, whatever I did, I could not remember what the response was for maybe. I should've said lets find out and kissed her, because there was one long ass pause. That window could not have possibly been opened wider. After what felt like forever she said no thanks, and I said I didn't say u could u just looked like u had something on your mind less than half heartedly. She almost instantly started talking to someone else, and I went back in. I've been kicking myself in the ass ever since. Problem is I hadn't gone kino at all. Not once. 0%. So I was scared as hell of kiss closing and had to fall back on a line.
So lessons learned. Dance as hard as you can, even if you think it's ridiculous. Major dhv. Try to get other guys to dance. Major dhv, because you lead the men you lead the women. I think rejecting lower value girls is dhv, not certain on that one. Haven't replicated it. All others I've done/noticed before. And kino kino kino when going for kiss close. I have no doubt if I'd gone kino on henrieke I'd have kiss closed.
Hoping today there will be sargable girls at the football grilling. It's all the football players and their friends and family. My fear is only girls there will be my teammates girlfriends. If there's anyone that's sargable it'll be a reportable night. If not then I'll see you guys next weekend
Jaffa cake out
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