Immediately after getting rejected by a HB8 I saw on the bus at uni, I approached a HB9 that I see a lot round campus. Spoke to her a bit then asked her out for a coffee to which she said yes then got her number. Texted her 10 minutes later saying:

"Hey *****. It's ****. This is my number. X"

It's been 40 minutes now and have had no reply. I stuttered a couple of times in the conversation, but not too much, I think I came across as reasonably confident. English isn't her first language either.

How should I proceed guys?

My HB9 girlfriend broke up with me just under a month ago so I've done a lot of approaching recently.

All the best

May not have been her number?

She may have given it to you just to get rid of you?

Or --- hey, it's been 40 mins... Why are you already freaking out cause you haven't gotten a reply?

Haha. It's been a good 4/5 hours now man...

That is called a flake. If she is interested she will get back to you, if she is neutral, you may wanna encourage her top respond.

'Here is my number, how is your day going? ' that you get to know she is blatantly ignoring you. You can also see the 2 ticks on whatapp to see if she read it

Move on and work on making those numbers solid instead.

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For starters, you didn't say anything that qualified for a response. You just wanted her to say " Ok. I got your number" ? That would be nice, but its not necessary. You can start up another conversation right now or later on if you like. You can pick up the phone and call the girl tonight also. This isn't a 100% flake, because nothing about your message said "respond". No question, just a statement. And I'm sure all you had to do was say " Hey its confused kid ". Always trim the fat if you can.. The "this is my number" was completely unnecessary. She just spoke to you. She knows who's number it is. Keep it short and sweet man.. Position her to invest.


And, If i were you I would practice hanging into the interaction and building as much as you can before going for the number. Make that connection. If i don't make the connection with a girl I honestly don't even want their numbers. For what? To waste more time?

Concentrate on the women you're actually connecting with. Don't be so eager to pull another attractive chick just because you're fresh out of a relationship and are looking for something to take your mind off of it.

You'll score a lot more lays a lot more consistently when you aren't spreading yourself thin. Focus on finding out whether or not this girl is actually someone you're connecting with.

Dragula's suggestion is also great.

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Appreciate the advice from both of you. Thanks guys. Realised my text was a bit shit.

Didn't get a reply all day, but on my way back from the gym, she walked round the corner, then walked back, then shouted hello, asked how my day was etc whilst she say round with her group of friends. I spoke to a couple of them then left to meet mine. So it seems she's not flat out ignoring me. I'm off to the library now to do some work, so if I see her there I may ask what her plans are tonight.

Eddie and Dragula already gave you some solid pointers and I do have to agree, your text was not inviting of a reply.

Anyway, here's a tip for you. Whenever you get a number, read it back to her and purposely swap 2 digits. If she corrects you it's her legit number. If not, you got a fake.

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That's brilliant.

Thank you.

An update. Her and I were texting the past couple of days, talking to each other when we bumped into each other etc. But she didn't reply to me at all when I texted today. Bumped into her on my way home however, and organised a date that night.

Just got back from the date, we kissed 4/5 times, I texted her saying;

"Thanks for a nice evening "

She replied "You're welcome, I had fun too! Goodnight X"

So it's going much better. Thanks for all the help guys. She's off back to her own country Wednesday, so don't exactly know what'll happen but hey.

Texted her today saying:

Me: "How's marketing going? I think I can pronounce {short Greek name} properly now! I don't think it will be in my exam tomorrow though... " <16:00>

Her : "Quite good actually, how's your revision going? Ahaha now you have to pronounce the whole surname {Long Greek name} " <17:06>

Me: "Not bad! I'm doing it in my room today, it's a bit loud on the Cypriot floor. I think I can pronounce the whole thing... You'll have to judge haha" <18:13>

Her : "Ahahah I have to, what time is your exam tomorrow?" <21:00>

Me : "3:30. Do you want to do something afterwards then? " <21:27>

I haven't had a reply from her now and it's 01:00am where I am. At about 11pm she accepted me as a friend on facebook. What should I do? Yesterday she was quite physical with me i.e. Gave me her hand when I swapped sides with her when walking etc. Although when I walked her back to hers at uni she only kissed me very quickly in comparison to earlier in the evening. Was me taking an hour to respond to her first message likely to have made her reply 3 hours later?

Texted her today saying:

Me: "How's marketing going? I think I can pronounce {short Greek name} properly now! wink emoticon I don't think it will be in my exam tomorrow though... " <16:00>

Her : "Quite good actually, how's your revision going? Ahaha now you have to pronounce the whole surname {Long Greek name} wink emoticon" <17:06>

Me: "Not bad! I'm doing it in my room today, it's a bit loud on the Cypriot floor. wink emoticon I think I can pronounce the whole thing... You'll have to judge haha" <18:13>

Her : "Ahahah I have to, what time is your exam tomorrow?" <21:00>

Me : "3:30. Do you want to do something afterwards then? smile emoticon" <21:27>

I haven't had a reply from her now and it's 01:00am where I am. At about 11pm she accepted me as a friend on facebook. What should I do? Yesterday she was quite physical with me i.e. Gave me her hand when I swapped sides with her when walking etc. Although when I walked her back to hers at uni she only kissed me very quickly in comparison to earlier in the evening. Was me taking an hour to respond to her first message likely to have made her reply 3 hours later?

#1. You're welcome.

#2. That's the type of text I usually get. It's what a woman will text the dude after the date, not the other way around. Don't do that.
You taking an hour to respond has nothing to do with anything, don't go there, it's overthinking.

Your texting isn't necessarily bad but that half assed attempt at scheduling a date was. First off, don't be all like "where do you wanna eat?". The statement itself isn't the issue, but guys who do that are all about pleasing the girl and have little regard for their own wants and desires. Of-course you yourself prefer to eat at a specific place. So go with that.
Same applies here. I'm sure you have some activity that you'd enjoy doing with her so propose it. Don't ask.
"3:30. Let's get icecream in the park and laugh at fat people. You free at 17:00?"

The invite itself has to fit your style but try to not make it too blend. And again, don't ask, tell. I could elaborate but anything I have to say you can find in my guide. Link is in the sig. Read that and if you have questions let me know.

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Thanks mate. I only texted "Thanks for a nice evening" as I invited her to mine after the date for a cuppa tea and didn't want her to think I was only trying to sleep with her.

I got a text from her today saying "Good luck for today " Which obviously wasn't a reply to my question about doing something afterwards... For this reason I doubted as to whether she actually received my text, as my phone has had trouble receiving calls recently.

I replied after my exam 6 hours later saying "Thanks! Just finished. Hope you've been working hard today "

I haven't had a reply to that. So thinking my message may not have reached her, I sent her a message, trying to take into account your post, via Facebook saying:

"Hello! Some of my iMessages aren't sending to some of my friends... How are you feeling for tomorrow? I'm heading into town during the day, do you fancy coming in for a quick drink? "

She was online until 1 minute after I sent this message, and she did put a photo on instagram about 15 minutes later. I'm confused as to whether she's still interested. My friends (girls) think she is, from the winks etc. My plan is to go into town tomorrow and talk to some other girls. She was holding my hand quite keenly round town the other night. Although her kiss after dropping her home was quite quick. I'm most likely overanalysing. Especially as my exams have ended and I'm bored out of my mind.

That still isn't a strong way to encourage a response so why would you end it with a closed off statement? Statements are great when girls are chasing you, but you're now in damage control
This is soooo needy, you're checking to make sure isn't flaking and way too many questions my man
Yep, you sure are. The way you describe your thoughts are from such a weak frame and her and me can sense this behind your words. A ladiesman would just send a text and forget, they would not time her response rate and instagram stalking.

I think it's a lost cause, but hopefully you can learn from this experience of what not to do next time.

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You're putting out a needy vibe OP. You clearly did something right and she may enjoy your company, but when you're not together your behavior is pushing her away.

I doubt this is salvageable, but if it is it's gonna be by her contacting you and not the other way around.


PS: Wink faces means she likes you? goes to show just how clueless girls are. Don't take advice from them.

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Girls don't always text back immediately I've found. I dunno how to actually get them on dates though I think you have to be master PUA level for that.