Hey guys I'm pretty new to all of this. I just read the book the game and decided I might check out the online community, I stumbled across this site. I'm 21 and recently lost like 100lbs. Lookin fairly good these days. After my entire youth life of being overweight and using drugs and such I never had much experience with woman. I am very awkward around than especially in an intimate setting. I'm not a virgin but It was just a fools game. I got lucky. I want to start to become a real pua. Where do I begin? Please help

-Sinatra

Welcome to the forum. I can relate to your story. I was 23 when I got started and I was a virgin. I basically had anti-game, meaning I had opportunities to close and did the exact wrong things consistently and didn't get laid.

I recommend Massive Action. I myself moved into a PUA mansion with a mix of instructors and newbies. I went out all of the time (6-7 nights a week), I opened 50-100 sets a night the first few months.

I did not know the game theory when I started. I just went through the motions enough with the other coaches and wings to accelerate rapidly. 3 months in, I had closed 13 girls (a few became regular fvck buddies).

There's all kinds of methods out there to try. I like mine but I'll let you decide what works for you. Here's my tips:

1) Don't sit on this forum instead of going out. Post about your sets as you hit sticking points.
2) Talk is cheap and not all forum members have the same experience levels, so pay attention to who is giving advice.
3) Value smalls successes, (ex. her verbal response on open, a phone number, a kiss, a makeout, bouncing her), and make the learning process pragmatic. The longterm results come from consistent concentrated effort.

Where do you live?

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