Post 5 of your favorite openers and 5 ORIGINAL and new openers and I'll let you know.

Here's 5 I used yesterday...

1. Do you know the best places to go downtown on a Tuesday?
2. I'm trying to prepare for my next drag show, what kind of foundation do you think would look best on me?
3. Do you have wifi here?
4. What is the big deal with Prada bags? Why do they have such a prestige about them?
5. Do you know where the closest Wal-Mart is?
6. Where is the bathroom?

... okay that was 6... some better than others...

I'm not much for the canned stuff. I've read them all, I can't imagine saying them.... but in the past I have used this one...

1. Do you think it's cheating if a girl gets drunk and makes out with another girl?

I can't say that I have 5 favorite canned openers....

I don't think I will ever walk up to a girl and ask her if she thinks magic spells work. Should I?

Now we're getting somewhere.

The primary purpose of the opener is, of course, to "open" and get the female talking. But of course, this isn't your real objective: you need to be able to convey positive traits about yourself as well. If you have great body language, eye contact,good voice tonality, SMILING, etc, then your opener will matter very little.

However, most persons DON"T have these in place. Even if you have a "good" opener, you will fail to elicit a positive response if your non-verbals aren't in place. This is why I ALWAYS suggest that guys starting out have a wing who can judge their interactions: there is a LOT that is communicated non verbally, and we can't necessarily judge you on this because we can't see you approach, and it's often the case that even the guys have no clue the negative vibes they're giving off because they can't SEE what they're doing.

My suggestion is to ALWAYS watch lots of video so that you can successfully emulate good body language. There are hundreds of videos online, but my FAVORITES are Keys to the VIP videos, such as:

This one - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CHd9zc1SkW8
This one - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A8Oy9N8LDRo

Both of these have examples of good openers AND good body language. Not only that, it's in a "real life" environment with feedback.


Try out a couple of the openers in these videos but also try emulating the style and ""vibe" from the SUCCESSFUL guys in the videos.

Cheers

I can definitely emulate their vibe.

But a lot of those openers seem a little farfetched. Are you really saying that I should go up to girls and tell them I just got plastic surgery on my lips? (actually, that sounds like a great idea now that I think about it...)

Can you tell me your 5 favorite canned openers?

I swear I will use every single one of them within the next 2 days.

Judging by your previous field reports, I somewhat doubt that your ability to match the energy and vibe will be as easy as you think, but it's good you're being optimistic I guess.

Your best bet is to come up with a mix of some template openers that you can adapt that suit YOUR personality. Adapting something that suits you is important because your delivery is what has the biggest impact on how successful you'll be. I don't really use "canned" openers but some openers I use frequently include:

(If we're wearing matching/similar colour clothing)
1. I LOVE your style....great minds think alike!
2. I LOVE your style...we're both matching! Have you been stealing from my closet?

3. I love your hair....I was going for the same thing but couldn't quite get the volume right (point to my shaven head)

4. So how you enjoying your night/day so far? (Then move on to commenting about something about HER, something she's wearing or doing)

Those are just some examples of openers that i HAVE used successfully.

In general, I do very little day game. Women are often going about their business, and so am I! If I do do cold approaches, then its usually nightgame where women are expecting/understanding of random approaches and where women are concentrated in a SPECIFIC location rather than on their way to work, shopping, etc.