It's annoying being around guys like that I know. I have a hard time personally being able to stay at the sidelines and just letting them dominate the convo. Unless of course their egos are in self-destruct mode.

AT girl brings me an aloe plant to thank me for all the help throughout the semester. Awwwwwwwwwwww

After the test, AB girl is the last to leave. I chat with her on the way out, and she hesitates before saying goodbye. I take that as my cue. I ask her, "wait, you're leaving tomorrow, right?" She responds yes, but not until later. I tell her we should grab food, and she responds favorably.

SM girl and RW girl both texted me to get fucked up after the test, and I told SM girl I might not be able to show up, and head to RW girl's place. I play her guitar, we sing and harmonize on some songs together, and we bond over that. We joke that maybe we should start a band called Mothershit (inside joke). RW girl makes me a margarita and we sip while we rock out. She offers me a bong hit and I take it.

MM girl arrives, we joke around, the energy is high, and we change into bathing suits to hit the hot tub after taking a shot to celebrate a great semester and new friends. Unfortunately, a security guard kicks us out before we even get in. MM girl drives us to Horsetooth Reservoir, the giant lake in the mountains right near our town. We rock out in the car, and check out the gorgeous view of the city at the lake. We check out a cool hippy cave, and take some pictures, me arm in arm with one girl, and then arm in arm with the other.

MM girl mentions a bf "that's an ass", and RW girl's bf is coming for a week but spending the summer in Iowa. Looks like RW girl and I will be hanging out this summer. MM girl is leaving for Las Vegas for the weekend for a Britney Spears concert, coming back, and then leaving for Boston for the summer.

I hold both girls' hands guiding them up and down rocks, and it's feeling nice and comfortable. It's on with MM girl, I can feel it. Unfortunately she has to fly out in the morning.

Next we get back to the car and cruise to a couple different community pools looking for a hot tub. We finally find one, hop the fence, and soak in the hot tub, just me and two hot girls. Life is awesome sometimes. I turn the conversation sexual a couple times, it seems like I'm more comfortable with it than the girls are.

We head back to RW girl's place, and all lie in her bed to chat and watch a show. There's a lot of body contact, and her dog is cuddling with us. The girls are pretty freakin' comfortable with me. I pull some comfort game on MM girl and ask her about her high school experience. Couldn't get really deep because of the lack of isolation. MM girl has to go, and offers me a ride home. I oblige, and we chat in the car.

She pulls the classic girl validation seeking maneuver, and briefly mentions a body part she is insecure about. I tell her she has an attractive body. Awwwwwww Unfazed being so sweet. She gushes, and then compliments me back, saying I have nice legs. Dat running tho...

As she drops me off, I tell her I'm going to go in and eat a vat of ice cream, and she should come in. She declines, saying that she has to fly out in the morning. I don't push. She mentions going to the zoo on Monday, but I have summer teaching starting then. I tell her I can on Tuesday, and she says maybe we can do Tuesday. She tells me she's going to Snapchat me pics of the concert. I head back and call it a night.

Analysis

Love these girls, they're awesome. New friends are always awesome. It's on with MM girl, just bad timing with her leaving for the summer and all. Corrected a sticking point. Old Unfazed would brush off the validation seeking attempt. New Unfazed recognized it as a girl test for interest, and passed it with flying colors. Physical escalation is nice and easy, but didn't make an emotional connection with MM girl yet. I have it with RW girl, but she's less comfortable with touch than MM girl is.

My life is awesome!

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Friday

Don't get comfortable, EVERY HUMAN INTERACTION BE ENGAGED AND PRACTICING!!

I wake up, lift, and chat with a cool broski at the gym. He number closes me, and boom, just like that I've got a new workout buddy. Walking back to my place I run into KF girl, and we animatedly talk to each other. She reaches out, touches my necklace, and takes a look at it. We talk about hanging out this summer. I tell her to shoot me a text so we can go for a run together, she animatedly agrees.

A haircut makes my head look a lot more aesthetically pleasing for the summer.

Before dinner, my good friend from back in NY, MW bro, calls me up and we chat a bit. I tell him I'll be back in Ithaca in a week for my sister's graduation, and we should snag a drink.

I meet AG girl, RI bro, DY bro, NS girl, and AM girl at Lulu's Asian Bistro. They order some delicious shit, and I order a bomb-ass sushi that explodes into a million flavors in my mouth. The cute Asian waitress starts flirting with me hard. Dayum girl, behave yourself! We get ice cream afterwards.

AB girl is leaving for the summer this day, and I leave to meet up with her one last time. We eat food at Cheba hut with her friend Jessie and her plant Paul. Jessie asks me about my limited blazing experience. We decide to take my minivan to city park and to smoke. They get me high, and I bring them back to their car, because they need to be in Denver at the end of the night. AB girl and I hug goodbye, and exchange meaningful looks. I tell her to drive safe, and put my hand on her shoulder. She reaches up and touches my hand.

I text her afterwards:

"That was fun. Gonna miss you. Drive safe!"

Her:

"Hah I'm glad you had fun. I hope we didn't mess up any plans but I'll miss ya too, couldn't have got stuck with a better TA"
"Haha but seriously thanks though for everything, you're great"

Me:

"Aw thanks, good luck with your family and summer classes"

Her:

"Thank you! Have a fun summer"

Analysis

Sigh. Gonna miss that girl. I'll start things back up when she comes back for the fall.

I've had the Colorado weed experience now, and I don't really like losing control of my brain. Gonna skip out for now, now that I've gotten the experience.

This is a different kind of miss, though. Although I miss her, I still feel happy, and am optimistic for the future. It's a good place to be. Looking forward to a bomb-ass summer!

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Ran 10 miles up and down a mountain. Completely dead. Man, this used to be cake for me, now its sauerkraut mixed with cheesy carrots or some shit.

The sun finally got its shit together and decided to show its face after a 2 week hiatus. Got some blood pumping through my veins. At the top of the climb, who shows up? None other than HR girl, my ex, hiking on her own. Luckily I'm shirtless in just shorty running shorts and shoes so she can 'mire the bod. We exchange some pleasantries and I continue on my way. At the bottom of the mountain, I'm running back to my car, and I hear a honk. She rolls past, smiling and laughing along the way.

At the car, I down my protein shake and check my phone. KF girl had apparently found my number and shot me a text, asking if I wanted to run with her. I shoot her a text back.

This summer's gonna be totally pimpin'. I can feel it. Colorado love all the way baby.

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One of my roommates, M girl, and I haven't really bonded up until yesterday. She's a cute, short brunette that's a bit shyer. While we clean and get ready for the potluck, she tells me about how her uncle died recently. I cut all joking and tell her about my mom last year. We bond emotionally. People start arriving.

As I interact with people, my state gets higher and higher. Soon enough there's like 20 people here all chilling and having a good time, including RI bro, JK bro, SG girl, AM girl, AG girl, CG girl, NH bro, DR bro, J girl, NS girl, and some other people I haven't mentioned in this journal. AM girl is super touchy and all over me, and I keep pushing her off. I catch wind that she just broke up with her ex bf.

The party is basically just straight goofing off, racist jokes, and everyone's state getting pumped. It was amazingly fun. M girl (roomie) mentions how I'm a connector. This apparently means that I know a ton of people and I'm super popular. Yup, #truth.

After everyone leaves, M girl and I sit down and watch Louis (TV show) on the couch. She's talking a lot more than usual because she's drunk and high. I qualify with a statement of interest, telling her she's funny when's she drunk, and I liked that. It was definitely a shock to her system, as she's temporarily at a loss for words. BOOM. I transition back. She tells me about drugs she's done, and then we start connecting on deeper subjects, like family and how our parents never really accepted us for who we are. Her eyes tear up. I take her hand and I hold it. Then I hold my arm out and she leans in and puts her head on my shoulder. I hold her hand for a bit.

She gets up to go to the bathroom, and comes back and sits a bit further away again. I get up, get my sleeping bag, and lay back down, with my feet against her leg. Eventually we call it a night and return to our respective rooms. Fooling around with someone you live with is dangerrrrrous. I should probably back off...

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In the morning, KF girl picks me up to go running. This girl is a tall beautiful brunette into running. She's always light hearted and joking around, which makes her even more attractive.

I hope in her truck and we drive towards the mountains. The vibe is immediately light and playful, and she's laughing at everything I say, even shit that ain't funny. We get there, I pay the parking fee, and we start running. She keeps the conversation going most of the time, and we talk about all sorts of random topics that I don't even remember now.

She's also kicking my ass royally on this run. I'm huffing and puffing, legs still dead from the previous day's mountain climb, and this girl's not even sweating. This is no way affects me state (like it would if I wasn't a gangster), and I still joke around the entire way.

She mentions a boyfriend that she just broke up with (very recently) and complains about him a bit. Green light.

I tell her about my breakup and random bullshit with HS girl, it seems to lower her state slightly.

We arrive at the top and enjoy the view. As I point something out in the horizon, I brush up against her, slightly brushing her boob. An accident, I swear. We chat a bit at the top, and start our way down. I qualify her, telling her how I liked how she was so friendly with everyone we met (she literally said hi to EVERYONE).

We saw two sets of people on the way up that greeted me by name (cuz I'm popular). Good social proof. We get down the mountain, and before the parking lot she takes a spill and cuts up her hands and knees. Doesn't even faze her, kudos for her state control. She initiates the high five and we drive back down, still joking the entire way. Talking is easy with this girl.

I ramp up the eye contact a bit, but it is still a light hearted vibe, not deep and connecting yet. I qualify her again, telling her that she's always in a good mood, how that's different from other girls, and how I liked that (all true things). It catches her off guard, and she's a little shy and awkward with the compliment. It only lasts a little bit, though, and she's right back into talking and joking.

We stop for gas, and then for smoothies. We run into Fuzzy's Tacos to say hi to some of her coworkers (she has work there shortly), and I meet some of them. I find out that she's talked about me to them, and how I'm somewhat of a celebrity. All good things. At the smoothie place, I notice how her hand is still bleeding, and I ask for a paper towel, hold her wrist, and tend to her hand. Awwwww, Unfazed being so sweet. She drives me back to her place, and solves logistics for me. We talk about how we should eat Thai food together, do all these other runs together, and she mentions that we should run again before I leave for New York this coming weekend. I tell her hell yeah, and before I leave she goes for the high five, I go for the hug. She accepts it, and I get back to my house.

It's all feeling more and more natural! Woo hoo!!! Things have really changed. Before, I was just getting attraction, but now after getting qualifying with statements of interest, physical rapport, and emotional rapport down, girls are setting up plans with me, chasing me for one on one time with me. Fantastic!

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After reading David Deida's "Way of the Superior Man" and investing in Jason Capital's Millionaire programs, I am in the process of transforming myself into an entrepreneur. The plan is currently to launch my first product in the fall, and I'm using the off time from teaching and research to set that up. Once the product is formed, it's time to dive headfirst into the world of sales and direct response marketing.

As far as girls go, it's been second on the list to work (where it should be), but I still should work on it harder. Physicality is feeling good and easy, and I still need to work on qualifying statements and making those bomb. Here are a list of girls currently on the roster of potentials:

KF girl, currently gone for a week in Durango. On the straits with her bf. Lots of physicality, good physical rapport and attraction. Looking promising here.

MS girl, one of two roommates. Shyer, but whenever we go out and hang out with my social circle together she gets flirtier. We've got good rapport, less physical. Kinda dangerous fooling around with a roommate...

SM girl, just got back from Washington DC. Invited me to a boat party on the reservoir this Saturday. Leaving at the end of the summer to live with a long distance bf. Gonna just use her to meet more people.

AE girl, just have attraction with this one, no rapport. Spanish club is where we see each other, and she asked to make sure I was going next Monday...

J girl, hooked up with her once, wasn't really interested in it as much after, but we're good friends...

MB girl, met her at party once, exchanged numbers, saw out once, good attraction. Will keep inviting her to social events.

HS girl, met out and through friends. Exchanged numbers, will keep inviting her out to social events.

Just got my hair cut at a new barbershop, it's SICK. Gonna be frequenting that place more often. Cold reads and qualifying statements are the focus of my game improvement at the moment. LET'S GO!

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May I ask what it is that Jason Capital is teaching in his Millionaire program, and what the product you hope to create is as well?

I ask out of pure curiosity about both you and what he's teaching because this is what I do for a living.

Whoa, hold the phone. You teach business? Entrepeneurship? Sheeeeeeeeeit hell yeah! What exactly do you do?

Jason Capital's Millionaire DNA program is teaching guys the mindset, the habits, and a couple different logistical things about how to become a millionaire as fast as possible by creating your own business and becoming a master of marketing. I don't have enough money right now to invest in his next program, Digital Millionaire, but I know enough now to get working.

My plan is to create a product that teaches Biology students how to study more efficiently and how to get better grades through smarter study tactics and test taking strategy. I realized there was a market for it because so many of the students I teach put in a lot of effort but struggle to get the grades they want, and I can see why and how they come up short. I also consider myself somewhat of an expert in the area, as I've been teaching biology for close to 8 years, to students ranging from high school to Ivy League students, to medical students, in both 1 on 1 settings and classroom settings.

I'm in the process of creating a video series, which will be my first product. Once I finish the product, I will have to work hard on the marketing and the product launch. Right now, I'm weak in pretty much every single area... I am relatively new to good video-making. I have no clue how to make a good website and I need to make one. I have no clue how to set up an email listserve to generate leads. I want to use flyers around campus to generate leads as well. I need to create free video content on youTube and use social media to generate leads. A whole bunch of stuff that I'm new at, which is fine, because I just started, but between getting a PhD (my day job), teaching, exercise, and my social life, my days are freaking jam packed, and work on the business is going slower than I'd like. Still, I'm getting better and better at being more productive and efficient each day.

A quick game update:

VL girl. Goddamn these half Japanese girls, they do it to me every time. <--- shout out to Weezer

So I walk in this morning to my lab, see my prof and an unreasonably cute girl there, served up all for me. The game Gods smile upon me this day. I obviously pay her absolutely no attention, and communicate with the prof. The girl and I get introduced, she smiles, and then I talk with the prof some more, leave to his office, and then after, I come back.

I sit down, and immediately start qualifying her. She is doing a research experience this summer. She's an undergrad at Front Range Community College. She is interested in marine mammals. I say something witty, she laughs. I eat my Subway lunch and grade, bein' all busy like. She asks me a question about the paper she's reading and how calcium works in muscle signaling. I drop a FAT knowledge bomb on her and blow her mind. She be like, "ooooooooooh I get it now." I go back to grading.

I turn around and start inputting grades into the computer. We start talking some more while I do this, and it's perfect because my attention is mostly on the computer, inputting grades, but I'm communicating with her the whole time, so the frame of her trying to get my attention is set up perfectly.

I split my attention between the computer and her, and we start talking about her and Asians in general. Apparently she's a quarter Japanese (her mom is a halfie), and she grew up in California. Naturally, she went to a private school with a million Asians, and felt a bit left out because she was so pale (she looks white). She took a million AP classes, so apparently she's a smarty pants, but obviously not as smart as you know who. WINK

She plays the piano, surprise of all surprises. We laugh about some Asian jokes I make, and about the sad state of affairs Asian food in Colorado is. She's enjoying it, that greedy little thing. I cut the convo, she starts it back up: "So, where are you from?" I tell her a bit about my upbringing, but her vibing skills aren't as great when she's talking about me, and not herself. Man, girls have some weak ass shit verbal game. Then again, they don't need it, all they have to do is have some semblance of physical game (like KF girl). Damn, KF girl's physical game is on point now that I think about it. She's all about the proximity, incidental touches, deep / close eye contact, and she even used the high five hand clasp on me. Playas gon' play.

I finish inputting grades, take her around the lab, and instruct her on some procedures we'll do the next day. The mood is light and fun, and she's laughing and in a good mood. We exchange numbers, and then I head out.

I'm gonna be working with this girl all summer like every day. This is trouble. She's so petite and feminine, and rather giggly. It's going to be hard to resist.

Good thing I'm more focused on work, and my business. Getting better at this every day. Every time I think about a girl, I just instead think about how PUMPED I am to make this business work. LET'S GO!

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Also, I completely forgot to give you guys the lowdown on KF girl.

So after the last running episode with her, I went running with her again (her idea).

At the run, she invites me to hike with her at Estes Park (an hour away) the next day, with her friend Jordan (a girl). In the morning, I get a call from KF girl saying Jordan is sick, but she's still willing to go if I am. I consider for a moment (#game lol) and then agree. She picks me up and we head out. Not half an hour in, we get a flat. Luckily, a Wal-Mart sits near by. We park, and flirt inside. She's doing most of the talking, and luckily, she's rather good at talking. We joke and flirt and laugh it up.

The tire change was FREE and only took half an hour. We set back on our course, and drive all the way up to Long's Peak, a FATASS mountain that peaks at over 14,000 ft. We start hiking, and it's all joking and light hearted shit the entire way. This girl is FUN. There's snow everywhere, and I start sinking in with every step cuz I'm so dense and muscular, while this skinny runner girl floats on top of the snow. She calls me "Posthole Unfazed". #game

We take some pics, hit treeline, and the snow starts getting crazy. I'm sinking in to my knees with every step, and soon enough, my thighs. I was also a complete freaking moron in that I wore thin running shoes and cotton socks. Soon enough I'm on the verge of frostbite. We reach a trail junction at the top after a lot of struggle, and we sit down on some rocks. The view is stunning, and the air is thin. My toes had reached emergency level, and a brilliant idea strikes me. I empty all the gummy bears out of the two plastic packets I have, take my socks and shoes off, and jam my feet into the plastic packages. Then I put my soaking shoes and socks back on, and we start walking down the mountain. Walking down is even tougher, and we're both sinking into the snow with each step. Should've brought snowshoes fo sho.

My feet start warming up, and we slip slide all the way back down to our car, where we laugh and reminisce about our ridiculous adventure. We head downtown to a burger joint, and order some food. Unfortunately, I sit down first, and she sits down across instead of along side. I need to make it a habit to sculpt the situation so that the girl sits down first.

We start talking, and shit gets kinda deep. She tells me about her brother, who's been in and out of boarding school and rehab, and how her parents are handling it. Even though we did get deep, I could see that it wasn't changing her emotional state, and we didn't have that rush of oxytocin you get from really hitting on the same emotional level with someone.

I steer the vibe back to fun and playful, and we take turns snorting red pepper flakes and parmesan cheese off the table. Apparently I was better at it, and my entire respiratory tract started burning like shit. This has her doubled over in tears.

We pound our food, and walk around the touristy little mountain town, flirting the whole way. I look at certain shops, she follows me everywhere I go. We share ice cream. It's some real romantic shit, minus the hand holding. We eventually head back to her car and start heading back. This whole time, we'd been joking around about a list of things we had to do together: go on more adventures, eat at this place and that place, drink together, go to the drive-in together, watch this movie, watch that movie, etc. etc.

On the drive back we stop at a free sample spot, and we split a bottle of cherry cider YUM

Then we proceed to sing Taylor Swift all the way back.

The next time I see KF girl I was out with friends at Lucky Joe's. She was out with friends too, and looking completely different and gorgeous not in running attire and with makeup on. She touches me on the arm, letting her friends go on without her, and we chat a bit, real close and with deep eye contact. She tells me she couldn't run earlier that day because Erik (her bf) is in town (she makes an annoyed / upset face lol). She asks me where I'm going after. I tell her probably home (it's 12:30 am). She tells me I should go to Bondi's with them. I tell her maybe.

When my other friends peaced out, I head to Bondi's and see her friends on the way out, they tell me she's inside and to tell her to go to rec room. I do just that, and see her inside. She introduces me to Erik, her bf that she's on again off again with. We shake hands, and he's a cool bro! Yeah! We joke around a bit and laugh a bit, and then I tell KF girl I'm heading home. She gets a look on her face that says she really wants me to stay out, but I stay adamant. She high fives me, and right in front of her bf interlaces fingers with me. #DatJealousyGameTho

A day later, she sends me a text saying that she's on her way back to Durango, and will be back in a week. She says she'll text so we can do more adventures then. Cool cool!

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I do direct response... I'm a "gun-for-hire" so I don't teach it, I do it. I only have two clients right now and work less than full-time making damn good money.

Its one of those things (like game) where you can basically hard-work your way to being better than 99.9% of everyone else. Most people will dream of being an internet millionaire or an in-demand DR copywriter, but never put in the actual effort needed.

How much is Jason Capital charging for his program? I know nothing of his dating skills, but I actually first heard of him because another marketer sent me some of the emails and sales letters he was using to sell his dating stuff. He does direct response fairly well from what I remember. That said, always be cautious about who you listen to in this industry. There are a lot of guys who are one-hit wonders, or worse, just putting up a front. Not saying he is (or isn't for that matter), just to be careful.

If you had more free time, I'd suggest you try to freelance, but you might be stretching yourself thin. Jumping into someone else's business is the best way to learn this stuff. You'll learn where the real value levers are, and then you can identify the places where you can just outsource the work. Then you might find you make so much money you don't really have much of a need to make your own products (like I have - although I will expand my empire in the next 1-3 years).

Here's a few thoughts on your current plan:

Point blank, you are risking a lot of time into these videos and then not being able to sell them. You want to validate the idea with a minimally viable product test (or by building an audience around the idea) before you spend time, energy, or money (everything you do in life will cost you at least one of those three, at least in business you can quantify the return!).

Here's what you could do instead:

Outline the entire course/seminar. Then teach it in person to people live on campus for a relatively low price. Go on Craig's List and hire an aspiring videographer in town on the cheap. Have him record it.

Now you have a product, and you got paid to produce it WHILE validating that it would sell and being able to talk to students and get feedback, which will both improve the product, and make it much easier to write the copy to sell it since you'll know all the struggles and objections first-hand.

Then... you can go online, build a blog, start guest-posting, creating free content, etc... to drive leads into a funnel that sells this product.

Conversely, if you can't sell the seats - well you didn't waste more than a day or two marketing the live event and you can pivot the idea.

From there, if the idea is really validated, you can expand the course, take it into a "digital classroom" and charge a much more premium price now that you have an online audience and initial success stories.

The other option is to just jump straight online, start creating the free content, guest posts, etc... and build your list and then use those people to hold a live webinar series or small-group coaching workshop as the minimally viable product. That might take a little bit longer to generate the leads though.

Also, don't worry about crap like Wordpress or creating your email lists. Implementation is the lowest end of the value chain. Learn it when you absolutely have to, i.e. when stuff has to be implemented. You are much better focusing on high-level activities like copywriting, strategy, product positioning/development, offer construction, etc...

Phew... that's a lot of stuff. Sorry, got a little carried away. My mind immediately goes into "grow this business" mode. Hopefully it all makes at least a little sense.

Dude, thanks a lot for the advice, that gives me some shit to think about. Right now it's going to be hard to gather an audience for a seminar event because it's the summer and there's like no one on campus, but I will start outlining and practicing the content I want to deliver, which will help either way I go. I'm busy at the moment but I'll think about this and get back to you in more detail in a bit...

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I payed about $300 for his Millionaire DNA system, which is about 4.5 hours of video content. I've got pretty much every email from him ever saved in a file in my gmail account, if you're interested in seeing some of them. His dating shit is the best out of any of the programs I've seen or bought, and it's the stuff that's helped me out the most.

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I thought about it a little bit, and practicing the content is going to be beneficial either way I go. I've got a tripod and an iPhone 6 for recording, which is shitty, but it's something, so I might as well practice delivering the content and video tape it anyways. That way, I'm preparing for both the seminar route of action and the original minimum viable product way of action.

In the morning I interact again with VL girl, but in the middle she dropped a bf line, which is fine, I was losing some interest in her anyways. I'm at a point where all the girls that I'm interested in have bf's already, so I should elevate my level of game to where girls are interested in upgrading. For the most part, what I've read is that gaming girls with bf's is pretty much the same as gaming girls without bf's... you just attract, qualify, connect, and escalate like normal, should you want to. I've read something about the "straw man" technique somewhere on the forum, but eh I'm not sure about it. I should probably try it just to see how effective it is, but honestly, if a girl is in an amazing relationship, I would much rather she stay in that one. If she's in a shitty one, then I'll have no qualms about letting her upgrade.

An interesting text interaction I had with AG girl yesterday:

Her: Next game is Sunday! Wanna watch?
Me: Yeah!
Her: I think it's at 5 mountain time
Me: Sounds good!
Her: Awesome, you better be rooting for the cavs *bball emoji*
Me: Maaaaaaaaybe
Her: They've NEVER won
Me: For a reason
Her: Woah, if you're gonna be acting like this, idk if we can watch together
Me: I'll bring ice cream
Her: Your cold attitude should keep it chilled
Me: Someone's sassy tonight
Her: Lol only because I know you can take it
Me: My feelings are like, really hurt
Me: *crying emoji*
Her: Do you need a tissue for all those tears?
Me: Several, please
Her: I'll mail them to you, they should arrive in a few days
Me: Thanks, you're so sweet
Her: I know *angel emoji*
Me: Aaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh!!!!!! <- regarding the game
Her: Omg I know!!!! It's so close!!!
Me: It's over, I'm gonna send you those tissues back
Her: Too bad, already mailed. You'll need em later
Me: Lebron = choke
Her: Classic Lebron

end of interaction

I've been working on being fun and challenging (a la Jason Capital) in every interaction, whether it be a guy or a girl, so it's eventually automatic and unconsciously competent.

Last night, I went out with SM girl, her bf JW bro, and some other folks. It was tons of fun, as JW bro is awesome, and we bonded over everything from UFC to basketball to eating competitions. The girls mentioned that we were really cute together. An interesting interaction happened involving an army dude:

I'm in a really high state, and I walk up to two dudes in front of us in line. They are looking at two ID's. I tell them with a smile on my face that they look fake. One dude laughs, other one gives me a stony face. Stony face is dude is apparently an army man smoking a cig. JW bro and SM girl come up, and army bro says that it's an army ID. JW bro joins the teasing, and mentions that he heard army ID's are the easiest to fake. Again, stony face. We talk for a couple seconds more, and I'm sensing this dude is not amused and just a straight up downer. Out of nowhere, he tells JW bro, "Yo, you're a faggot." JW bro and SM girl are stunned. I come to the rescue, put my hand on JW bro's shoulder, and say, "But he's such a good looking faggot, I mean, c'mon have you seen this" I gesture to JW bro's face. Army bro tries to antagonize but I'm way too good at agreeing with him and diffusing with humor. He starts walking off, and says, "Whatever guys, enjoy your fucking freedom."

I look at everyone around us and say, "Dang, that was a salty bro." Everyone laughs. Situation diffused. For all you crazies out there, that's the proper way to diffuse someone looking to start shit up. Now, I could've escalated the situation and kicked his ass or whatever, but that's what someone with a weak ass ego would do. Instead, just agree with the dude, absurdify it, diffuse with humor, and let him carry on with his miserable life. That's a lesson in never having an escalating situation ever again in your life.

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Welcome to my morning purge. No, this isn't referring to me taking a dump. It refers to me taking a figurative dump of value on this forum in order to practice writing, sales, and communicating.

I want to show you a couple techniques that will help you charm that girl you've always wanted. These techniques are simple, quick, easy to remember, easy to practice, and will always get you attraction. She'll think of you as that charming asshole that all the girls like. She'll want to bang you. She'll be infinitely more intrigued after you do these.

These will literally pattern interrupt her brain, make it stop, take notice, and say, "Who the fuck is this guy?! I kind of want to get semen blasted in the face by him!"

Without further ado, welcome to: Unfazed's Attraction Bombs

1.

You see her for the first time in an interaction, she says, "hi!" and comes in to greet you. You keep a straight face and say, "Who are you again?" Hold it for a second, and then smirk. BOOM!

2.

In a group setting, if you're sitting next to a girl, start sniffing the air like a bloodhound. Start sniffing closer and closer to her, and pretend like you just smelled something on her. Briefly make a face like you just smelled very, very curious and slightly disturbing, and then turn your attention back to the group. "I'm sorry, you were saying?" BOOM!

3.

This one's super simple. Stand side by side with her, and don't look at her. Be engaged in something or someone else, and just gently give her a little playful shove without even looking at her. BOOM!

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