i met this girl awhile back during a breakup. we just madeout and did our thing but she was always talking about her recent ex and clearly was thinking about getting back with him. for this reason i stopped pursuing, we stopped contact until recently. her and her friends came to meet me at a club i was at on Saturday, she seemed okay with me touching her around the tips and on her face ( cupping the ear, if that makes sense). ever since then she's been texting me every day. we set up a day to meet and she says "il get back to you to confirm... still gotta talk to (boyfreinds name) lmao".

what do i answer to this? im not in the mood to get into any drama but i didn't initiate anything, she texted me first and she came to meet up with me. is this some sort of shit test? i know she is actually in a relationship because of mutual friends.

Just keep calm and play with her.

"Ask your bf if you can kiss me."
- something like that

are you sure? if/when i see her again i should say that? im trying to picture it and i cant. wouldn't making her think about her "bf" right before kissing me kill the mood?

i get the while making out say "we shouldn't be doing this" cuz then she's going to justify why we should. however before she actually crosses that line seems kinda like suicide.

back to the text. i told her to let me know. il wait for a reply or for her to text first however how should i play this? do i just have fun with her and hope that she will eventually break up with him? this seems kinda beta. just waiting for a good time and going in for the kiss could lead to bad things. has anybody ever been in this situation? what did u do/dident do?

If you're not very good with women, I'd stop talking to her. Go after other women.
He might be able to pull this off. But if you're not confident and skilled enough, probably won't go too well.

Then why are you even responding?

You're allowing yourself to be apart of a game and choosing not to take responsibility because you didn't initiate it? Wake up bro.

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thats besides the point, i couldn't care the drama she has in her life with her bf. i just wanna know what shes thinking and todo this i feel like i have to play along. my question is simply how do i respond when she says shit like that.

it always starts before it stops. if its not me its gonna be someone else.