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What don't I understand about how women work at a basic level? What don't I know about presenting my best self? I take care of hygiene, joined a gym, always wear good clothes, etc.
What you don't understand at a basic level is evident but it's far too much for me to be willing to type. Your outer self is nothing but your shell. Of course you want to present your best shell, but it's your inner self that will keep them around.
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What don't I know about my own value? Is this why I tend to be delusional and narcissistic? Because I can't see my own value at a human level (this rings true)......
The fact that you talked about cars and money, things that can come and go, as part of who you are means you don't know your value. What is it about you that can't be taken away that would make people/women want to give their time to you?
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Why do you think I devalue women? What is wrong about my thought process on this? And you are right about that.... not all of them, but it happens a lot.... why do I do this?
You do it out of insecurity. You think you don't have anything to offer them, so your process is to bring them down a peg. Problem is that it makes you not like them without knowing them. If they fell that you don't like them, they're not going to like you.
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