I am not a PUA but I can talk to most of the girls easily in the right environment. I recently joined this salsa dance studio. The environment is easy for me to talk to the girls ,because I am one of the good dancers and the girls wants to dance with me.

So, this one girl showed me enough IOIs to date/have sex with me. I am confident (not overconfident lol) that if I ask her out she will say yes. But, I am not looking for a relationship now. I am afraid that, if I had sex with her that might affect the studio dynamics and she will look for relationship. It's a small dance community and people know each other. I am not really sure whether she wants to have a relationship or only sex. If it's just sex, I don't see any problem. But, if she wants to have relationship with me, I am not ready for that. So, I am confused whether I should escalate with this girl or not.

Part of me is telling me that, without trying I can't find out what she really wants. Other part of me is telling me that, I should date/have sex with girls outside the studio to avoid any mess. Also, I am not good at hit and quit kind of things though I wanted to be good at that lol.

So wait... All this chick has given you is a couple of IOIs?

I'm trying to clarify this... Cause you're talking about dating, sex and relationships... And it really sounds like you've made a giant leap from a tiny flirt - and you're planning contingencies for something that hasn't even come close to happening.

Have I read this wrong?

Are you simply asking whether you should shit where you eat? Cause that rule is for employment... This is dance class... No risk, no reward.

First of all thanks for the reply. This is my first post and you are the first person replied.lol. There are lot of IOIs actually. I thought it's too many to say. anyway, here are few IOIs,
- after our class when I sit on the couch and talk to other girls, she comes and sits on my lap and take pictures with me
- when I invited her to a bar along with few of my friends, she was not feeling well, but still she showed up. Later she told me that, she was sick but She couldn't stop herself going to the bar because of my company.
- during the social dancing when I was sitting on the chair, she comes and lays on me

like these.

Yeah I'd say those are definitely IOIs...

So the question really is should you open that box or keep it closed?

As I said - no risk, no reward...

If she's cute and you like her, why not? I probably would.

no risk, no reward - got it

Thanks for the reply. I will take the risk