I'm 22yo, average look, a bit overwight, and still a virgin.

I am very inexperienced with girls and I believe my virginity is a good part of the reasons I get AA and can't escalate properly.

Should I just call a hooker and get it over with once and for all?

You should lose some weight and get out there and get some experience.

You're weight doesn't matter if you have confidence, but if its bothering you then do something about it. If it doesn't bother you it won't bother her and if it bothers you it will bother her.

Sounds like a petty excuse. And you're feeling sorry for yourself. If you truly wanted to call a hooker you wouldn't be asking us. You would of done it already. You want support ask for it. Don't present a sob story as a way to get it. Be up front, thats probably the root of your problem.

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Dear lord... I promise you that your virginity has nothing to do with your AA/escalation. Have you ever heard a guy say, I have no AA & can escalate bc I'm no longer a virgin? I still get AA and I've had 6 partners in the last 3 months. If you had approached a few dozen women you think you'd have these problems? It's your inexperience! Hiring a hooker will have a wholly negative effect on you bc you won't even have get over AA or escalate.

I see you joined today... have you studied anything regarding picking up girls? Working on yourself, ie. losing weight and educating yourself on seduction tactics will go so much further than just hiring a hooker!

As always Eddie is right with his in depth psych analysis.

No. I can't even go this route. I refuse to pay someone to be nice to me. Thats just wrong on so many levels.

Also, in some wierd psychological sense natural alphas consider it to not even be sex if its with a hooker.

lol man the reason your not good with women isn't because you're a virgin. It's because you think that's the reason you're not good with women.
I'm a 26 year old virgin, and for the longest time I thought the same thing, hence why I'm a 26 year old virgin (at least you're seeking help at 22!). Once you start looking deeper your discover that's not even a % of what's wrong with you.
It's an excuse to hide behind and hiring a hooker won't do anything for you.
Take the hardest route possible, better yourself, learn how to be attractive, get the women.
Just to let you know, it's not something you learn fast.

The guys on this site have a ton of knowledge. Listen to them and ask questions.
Eddie always has good advice, listen to it.

Quality advice right here.

Yes, you should call a hooker.
And you should try to marry her. Fuck what Ludacris said.

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If you think is going to help you and get some confidence and a push to do what you need to do, go ahead... If if you think paying a hooker will be a solution to other more in deep issues, like being ok to decent with women, then no... There is not easy way out, you actually have to put the work to get to where you want to be...

As other suggested get in shape, you can do this in as little as 3-6 months... Work on your AA, this could be in as little as a month... Google good looking loser approach anxiety program or any other will do...

Escalating property, do not even worry about it for now, it will come with time and experience.

P.s. you could get in a bad habit and even addicted to paying hookers, so be careful.

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Take what skills360 said take it with a barrel full of salt! Don't underestimate the thought that it could get addicting.

Not trying to come off as a teacher or anything.. but comparing this to cheating on tests: if you copied the smart kid in class and got an A, yes.. your report card looks great but in the end, you didn't develop the skills to be a good student. if you care about being a good student, then you wouldnt cheat. same concept with the hooker, you're only cheating yourself.

i'm not made of money.. so i dont have a few ben franks to hand out to every girl offering herself up. save your money and improve your pick up game.