I am actually looking forward to asking that question now, out of pure curiousity! haha

Anyway, update:

She added me on fb yesterday, and it looks like she is much more comfertable texting on there, than speaking in person (To be totally honest, I am too... hehe)! Texting for 2 days non stop now, and tomorrow I will invite her to come over next weekend (She dont have her kid then). Feeling pretty confident she will say yes! Ive wanted this girl since I first saw her, so this is an amazing ego boost tbh! But, I have an issue I will explain below.

I have 2 problems that concern me quite a bit...

1: I have gotten tons of positive feedback from girls the last 2 weeks (more than I have ever gotten before!), girls aproaching ME in clubs (One girl actually threw herself at me, starting kissing like crazy on the dancefloor!), I am currently texting with 4 different quite hot girls I met in clubs last weekend, a couple of my ex`s friends have even started showing interest in me! I dont really understand why tbh, its never been like this before! Anyhow, I have went home with girls 2 times now, ended up in bed, suddenly I lose ALL interest, and all I end up with, is SLEEP! Its fucking embarassing! Getting over my ex sure isnt easy when I cant get myself to fuck other girls! The girls was not 10s to be fair, but still! If this happens next week, I will ruin everything, right?

2: Me and my ex have more and more contact now, and she says she is in doubt about the breaking up part, but she needs some more time figuring out some issues, and if she wants this or not. She promised she would decide rather quick, for my sake... (Yes, if she wants to try again, I will do it!) What do you think, am I beeing played like a sucker, or is there a slightest opportunity that she is telling the truth? I will not stop trying to get over her unntil she is definetly back though, but this abviously fucks me up quite a bit!

I bet if you told her that the relationship is off and you are already talking to someone she would be beating your door down to come back. She has the power now with the big decision but you can take it away from her.

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Wow, sounds like a movie. Can't wait to see how this plays out

Seems like you are enjoying the time apart and may even need it. You have been in relationships since 14? You seem to be doing fine, living a life you enjoy and attracting women by the numbers. Is that something you are interested in throwing away for someone who was not sure they wanted to be with you?

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Its been a while since my last visit here... Update!

Three weeks ago I found out that my ex was lying to me about some stuff, and I told her that it was definetly over (and I truly meant it too!), and to never contact me again... That same day I asked my neighbor over for coffee. We talked for maybe 5 mins before the conversation went REALLY sexual... After maybe 5 more mins (I dont really remember), I was fucking her like crazy all over my living room! Things got a little wierd after the sex for some reason, and she left... Two days later, she asks if she can come over again... I am thinking akward, but hell yes! This time, she is here the whole night... Long story short: We talked a lot, and both just wanted sex (unbelievable!). And we had sex three more times! (She was amazing in bed btw!)...

The day after that, only hours after she leaves, my ex is on my doorstep out of nowhere, crying, saying she have made a huge mistake, and she wants me back! (Nice call Miami) We talked for some while, and I told her
that I truly was over her, and that she had to leave... But, the next day after a lot of texts, I gave in to the begging, and told her that we could give it one more try. Things escalated way faster than I was planning on, and suddenly she had more or less moved in again... And things were actually better than ever! Sex atleast 3 times a day, and lots of happyness! But then... She found out about all the girls I had been talking to (Also the neighbor, but not that we have had sex) , and she went MENTAL! She left in rage, and I did not hear from her in three days... She calls me, saying sorry, and that past is past... And again she is back ofcourse! Hehe :p

Anyway... This time, things is not so great... It think she truely believes that I have done something wrong, by having contact with other girls while we were apart! (Its INSANE to disquss it with her, and listen to all her bullshit arguments!) And I feel that the "power balance" is WAY OFF... Any way I can turn it back around again?. Something just feels WRONG now! I will give it some more time anyway though, and try to figure this out!

Playboi: To be honest, Yes and no! A part of me wants that life, and another part doesnt... I guess that will always be a constant battle for me... In a relationship: Looking at all the beautiful girls I could be fucking, is torture! Single: Looking at all the "happy" couples sharing everything, supporting eachother, and never lonely, is a crappy feeling also (All the drama is forgotten though, hehe)! But yeah, you could be right about me needing to be single now...

Any updates?

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What ever you do, don't add her on Facebook. It will come off as "I don't have the balls to talk to you so
I add you on fb"

The easiest way to start a conversation with her is if she outside, watching her kid and playing
with yours, just casually start a conversation.

Say something like, "Hey, how's it going?"

Very casual. The reason it's going to work is because you have that common thing - she's a neighbour,
your kids play together etc.

I don't know why guys forgot about the casual conversations starters. It's one of the best ways to meet
people.

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Regarding this question, my man - I was in a very similar situation. I get single, and then meet
somebody who is "special", and I somehow get into a relationship.

What I eventually learned is that, yes, I will meet a girl that i will like. But I made a commitment to
myself that I will not get into a relationship with her AT LEAST 3 months after meeting her.

I can meet her, date her, bring her home - but I won't get into a relationship.

So make this commitment with yourself:

"I will not get into a relationship before at least 3 months of dating a girl..."

Read it to yourself in front of a mirror and state it. Write it by hand on paper and sign it.

Jumping into a relationship too soon is an addiction my man. Sober yourself up, and you'll
be able to enjoy your life a bit.

Second, It's important that you are honest and frank with the girl right from the start.

POSITION yourself before you get into a relationship. The way you position yourself is how she
will take you.

Say to her, "There's something you need to know. I like you and would like to see you, but I'm not
looking for a relationship at this point. I just got out of one, and I don't want to rush things. I
wanted to tell you this before we get any more serious..."


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