We 'mutual' liked each other and so I broke the ice sent her a message. We communicated back and forth over a few days, she sends a wall of text most of the time. She did go MIA for a bit and came back saying she was just unsure about the Online Dating thing. I told her to think of it as a mutual friend introducing us and that opened her up. Got her number and we arranged a date for Tuesday.

The date was kind of seamlessly choreographed and we kept a conversation going through-out. Though, I did send the last message (it was late) and she hasn't responded to it (it's nothing related to the date and was just a little 'We' mentality fantasy thing, no biggie). She hasn't opened up texting today and since I sent the last text, I'm leaving it.

How do I play it from here? Do I leave it up to her if she wants to re-open texting with me? Do I send something the day before the date to keep her buying temperature up? I don't want to invest too much and right now I have her investing more than I am.

Expect to face some sort of resistance from her about meeting you on Tuesday. She has a lot of time to reconsider and back out, which is why I usually try to plan my online dates for the same day we start talking or the following one. If you're doing something fun today/tomorrow maybe take a picture and send it to her rather than perpetuating boring conversation.

Of course, in the meantime you should continue talking to other girls on the app to take your mind off her.

I had no other opportunity other than Tuesday. I was busy the other nights. I wanted to schedule earlier and planned on it. I do expect flakiness. Although, I'm not gonna really push her resistance on it. I did that once and it was the worst date of my life.

Her doing it reluctantly is worse than her doing it at all.

I think we cleared this up in this chat? Am I correct?

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We did. The date is on tonight and I'm gonna go, enjoy her and have her enjoy my presence. Though, I will probably walk away from this one to begin building that abundance mentality you speak about. I know in my heart this girl isn't the quality I'm looking for in a LTR.

Awesome man.

I'd say good luck, but I get the feeling you don't need it.

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Thanks.

I'm getting those affirmations going. Did them while driving last night. Doing them while eating currently.