Met a girl. We spent time together in person. She goes back to the states where she is studying and adds me on facebook to keep in touch. We send each other a message after I initiate, the SECOND one I send she replies back... But a week later, without the slightest "sorry my phone got ate by the dog and I had to wait for it to shit it out until I could text you back" or nada.

My thinking is to drop this chick. I work 100 hour weeks and know for a fact I still have time to text people I want to talk to. If she cannot be bothered she's probably not that interested/invested which is fine, I can't win them all and my time is probably best spent elsewhere. Or if she's trying to play hard to get she's sadly mistaken if she thinks it will work for long.

If anything I will probably text her in a couple of weeks or so, when I can be arsed and have something important to say, I do have some photos together that I would actually like to send her when I get around to getting them off my camera.

However what do you guys think? Am I approaching this situation in the right way? Should I wait just as long at least as she did to find time to text OR should i just go ahead text her but something uninterested and uninvested right now and no more, as in to say cool I've seen your shit and I don't play games but I'm polite, not an idiot and then leave her alone for a couple of weeks or so, or until she texts me something new as I would anybody. Or just ignore her completely and message her something fresh in a couple week, if at all. I'd probably always do this as I can't see the point in chasing a chick who shows little effort in return. But as they say, with the same input, expect the same results, and my usual way doesn't usually seem to get me very far either. What do you guys think is the best play in such a situation? I'm pretty sure its not to go back into texting her with any sort of enthusiasm , kissing here ass like a wee lap dog who can't do enough to please her leaving the opportunity to leave me cold for another week. I find this kind of situation arises a lot with phone game. And I have trouble finding the right balance.

Don't you think you may be being a little unrealistic about this?

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Unrealistic? How so brother? Ok, either fuck her off or text her back?

What do you expect to happen? She's in an entirely different country. Women in America hardly date outside of their cities let alone state. So why would you expect her to jump at a FB message when you said the intent was only to keep in touch?

That's what I mean about being unrealistic. Relax. You're working 100 hours a week. You shouldn't spend any of your free time trying to figure out if you should keep, delete, write or ignore her. Take a page from her playbook...answer when you feel like.

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