I thought everything was going great, we were laughing and having a great time, even did a few light shoulder bump and she bumped me right back got a long hug after the date. before our date we texted probably 50 text a day for a week or so. after we would text probably 15-20 ish. I did notice her text got smaller but she would still ask questions and keep the conversation going. My question is this, call her asking what day she would be available for drinks or dinner? or wait it out? yesterday was my birthday. i told her the day before and she said nothing. Maybe she lost interest?

Don't overthink it. Just call her and see if she's up for another date.

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Thats what im planning to do. We spoke of another date a few days after our first date. She probably is busy. I'll update on this.

remember to ask her out only twice perk week. If she can't make it this week, ask the next week.


Makes you seem less needy and every text isn't an invitation to hang out. Win-win.

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Wow!
That is a lot of texts... Be careful that all the mystery isn't gone with her. Texting is great and can be fun, but texting should build the tension and excitement, not drain it before the next date.

In my experience, too much texting is bad when you are dating her - takes away the excitement. I usually only text either to build some sexual tension or to arrange a date/meetup.

try to set up a new date with her and let us know how it goes!

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And at what point do the rules change? After the kiss? After the sex? After the LTR or After she says " I do?"

I assume whatever it is I want. And I treat a girl like what I want her to be from the moment I meet her.

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