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So ive been told that i give up on girls too easily. like if they dont show interest within a short timeframe i give up and later found out that they liked me. But then a few times i try and stay persistent and they act like they like me only to then turn around and say im weird.
So i try to pursue a girl for no more than a month if that but i always feel like its pointless at the end. Ive talked to many girls and they all say im a cool guy, chill and all that. But i can never get them. I advance i close and all that (this was before i heard of this site) but i never get the girl. Many times the girl just goes off with anohter guy or they reject me. Other times ill quit becuase they arent showing interest and then later find out they liked me. One girl even tried to blame it on me saying "she though i was just acting like that because i wanted to bang her"
Sometimes i think girls think im too good to be true. Im funny, attractive, chill and all that (others tell me this at least). I work hard, im a go getter, and i dont let anything stand in my way to get what i want. The only thing that gets me is getting girls. really i think my only flaw is that im distrusting of people but i hide it well.
So why would a girl choose a guy that has nothing going for him over me?
But i digress.
What is the line between being persistent and being creepy.
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ALSO: Im talking to this girl on facebook right now who's pretty cute. She seems smart and all that. But theres a bunch of guys always posting stuff on her wall so im sure she's getting a lot of messages. So this is what i sent her:
ME: Hey what's up?
(About 20 min later) My bad i should tell you why im messaging you first
Honestly i was just bored, going through facebook and i thought you were pretty cute so i wanted to get to know you. But i see you probably have a lot of guy inboxing you on some creepy shit lol.
HER (30 min later): Thank you
ME (about 2 hours later): So that's cool? Nagat Tagalog ka ba? (meaning do you speak tagalog)
She hasnt responded yet and its been like a day. Part of me is like just leave it alone and whatevers whatever but another part of me is saying that she's probably getting a lot of guys talking to her so i have to stand out if i want to get her. Idk what to do
Your last paragraph clearly explain a lack of experience. Messaging girls like that on Facebook is a sure fire way to involuntary celibacy. Do not do that again. At the very LEAST - Google for some openers at the least instead of the 'what's up?' that everybody in the world hates.
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What is the line between being persistent and being creepy
There is a popular misconception that PUA's should 'plough' or 'persist' with every girl that shows disinterest. So many retards get it wrong. but it is very simple.
If she is smiling and giving you attention, persist by all means. Turning a girl from neutral to interested is called learning Game. On the flip side, when the girl has gave you bad reaction and you are repelling her. Then your ''persistence' will be labelled as 'creepy'.
Attractive guy persists = sexy
unattractive guy persists = creepy
In addition, I am pretty sure you lack physical sexual escalation with these girls. If girls are telling you that you're awesome then it tends to be a friend zone type of dynamic which means you gotta make a move or create sexual tension. Search the forum on that lengthy subject. There should be plenty of content around her to solve your issue.
Good luck.
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