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An old friend just called me to go out toninght.
She has some serious trust issues because of bad experiences in the past. Now aparently she has derailed another relationship and is feeling down. So:
How do I deal with her trust issues? She already trusts me more than anyone else, so how do I use it in my favour?
And how do I avoid being put in the therapist zone? Did that mistake once and it didn't do me any favours.
Thank you
By not acting like a therapist. Her trust issues are not your concern. The best way
You gotta escalate that mother fucker. Be willing, also, that she's going to walk away because you've already put yourself in the zone.
If you are unwilling to escalate or physically pursue her because you don't want to ruin your "friendship" then be prepared that that's all you're going to be.