how do you activate your self to self amusement all the time?
any advice?

Yeah. Stop thinking about it. Just do what the f*ck you want. Now, it sounds easier than it is at first but once you experience truly doing what you want, it is so simple. The best way is to act on your first whim. For example, you legitimately find something about a cute girl that is irking you....SAY IT TO HER! Instead of getting in your head and thinking of some gamey, cutesy type shit to say and how she may react....just say it! 9/10 the guys on here overthink a situation or reaction and never invest in an interaction at all.

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It takes alot of strong realizations that our entire existence is totally pointless and there is no reason to take anything in this life seriously. We are just mold growing on a sandwich in the big picture of things.

Flirted with a hostess at this bar tonight when I was out with my brother for you bud. Well, for me actually. Self-amusement. Saw her, she looked cute so I approached her and just started shooting the shit with her. Asked her if she was single, she said no. Asked her name again cause I genuinely forgot it, told her it was nice to meet her and went back To drink. No number but I am satisfied. She was eye fucking me, probably just a younger girl checking in on the goods. Multiple points of eye contact so what pansy wouldn't approach her?! Actually, you could consider it a "reject" but when you hold the power of the frame and are doing what you want, it feels like you rejected her because I went back drinking and having fun and she went on arguing with her man through text lol

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guys today i could not understand my mood i wasnt in self amusement but rather in a talkative mood
i was in the moment i approached 9s and 10s like a boss
im very aware and observant of what i feel
i was so pumped up even having conversation with foreigners and i should learn english more
i can think clearly and my intent was sharp

Sounds like self-amusement to me, bud. You were talkative because you were enjoying your SPAM and the vibe around your. So, you embellished in it. Saw cute women and approached them to see if they would be interested in the fun.

You're on to something

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