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PostPosted: Wed May 06, 2015 6:18 pm 
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It has been my experience that when a girl says "I am not going sleep with you" several times during the interaction, without you even initiating conversation or asking to have sex, this is usually a green light.

Not really sure why this case. So long as you remain unfazed you can close.


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PostPosted: Wed May 06, 2015 6:21 pm 
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Thanks for sharing. :idea:

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PostPosted: Wed May 06, 2015 6:25 pm 
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Yeah, realized this one too late. There's 3 lays in my history that I could have had if I had just gone for it..

Buddy and I were going to double-team this one chick (Eiffel tower). Her roommate came home and drank with us. Buddy went to room with regular chick, I went with roommate. We both wrote poetry, went over some together, she had broken up with a guy, said she'd love a cuddle when I asked, then I didn't escalate, woke up and she was sleeping on the couch. Could have pushed it and gotten sex.

Girl I worked with drove to my house right away when I asked her if she wanted to come drink with me. She didn't drink much and I wanted her to have the 'excuse' of being drunk so I could sleep with her. She told me afterward she wanted to escalate but didn't and I didn't act on cues she gave me.

Lastly, I was working on a University presentation with this one chick. Again, recently broke up with her boyfriend. She said I could stay over and sleep in her bed, but "no funny business". I didn't try anything. If she didn't want any funny business, she would have made me sleep on the couch.

Ah, the power of hindsight.


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I usually put my finger over their mouth and say " Yes you are"

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PostPosted: Thu May 07, 2015 8:23 pm 
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I usually put my finger over their mouth and say " Yes you are"
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What a great response, that had me weak

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PostPosted: Sat May 09, 2015 11:19 pm 
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I have to say I never got this test, but thanks to you guys now I know how to face it :D


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PostPosted: Sun May 10, 2015 12:43 am 
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Never got this test yet but honestly would lke to tango with this kind of "test". Its funny too cause if I ddnt use anything any techniques or tactics before she even mentioned the subject of sex, she'd be thinking about n lke trying to illeviate tht tension by putting the pressure on me. Here I'd just reframe everything as her trying to turn ME on n blame any form of attraction or escalation on her trying to get me into bed. LOTS N LOTS of sexual push/pull , soi -releases, barriers, etc.


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PostPosted: Wed May 13, 2015 7:09 pm 
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Yeah one of those mix signal things. Probably because they girl wants to appear to be a challenge, and convince herself and you that it was all your idea and doing. (As if you swept her off your feet).

Just thought I'd share, so others would not miss out.

The first time it happened to me, the girl kept saying it a the beginning of the night. At the end of the night we were in her bed, and she was on top of me with nothing but her underwear on. This was a few years ago, and obviously I found the situation odd.

It has happened a handful of times since, and I have adjusted accordingly.


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PostPosted: Wed May 13, 2015 7:14 pm 
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I usually say:

'Irrelevant, go ahead and call the cops, see who comes first...'

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PostPosted: Wed May 13, 2015 7:16 pm 
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When a girl says that... she's usually just saying it to herself so she can atleast say she tried to resist. Just please know the difference between real resistance and playful resistance... don't just be a pushy asshole. That's someone's daughter. Have a LITTLE respect.


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I usually troll on them:

"sex, naaaaaaaaaah cooties"

60 yoc "we are both adults and we are not going to do anything we are not comfortable with"

"good, cause i already fap 3 times before heading out, my pipi is dead" --->this is something that fits my style...

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PostPosted: Fri May 15, 2015 10:33 pm 
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"Good, I wasn't planning on going to sleep :-) "
Her: I mean sex meow meow meow
"Yeah, I don't have sex before the first date either"
Her: meow meow meow objection
"You're not the kind of girl? Well, I am that kind of guy"
Her: meow meow meow objection
"Damn girl that's sad. I thought we were really attracted to each other...if our attraction was as strong as I thought it was, we'd be ripping each others clothes off right now."

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