Hi,this is my 1st post on this forum.I have one strange situation with one girl who work as cashier on market in building where I live.This girl always provokes me when there is no much people inside that market.And she do that in funny way,I also respond on that.Even when I passing by that store,she go outside and tell me something,we joking.I realize that I must do somthing because I also like this girl,she is beautiful (there are 10 womens in that market and she is most beutiful there).
One day I decided to ask her for coffee,I ask her after some chatting: Well,*** I would like to drink coffe with you.
She: (suddenly put smile on her face and her eyes blinking,that smile is constant through all conversation): I dont know
Me: You dont know? Who we can ask if you dont know?
She: shrugs and say: Dont know
Me: Ok,give me your phone number and we will arrange that coffee
She: Nooo,cant give you my number
Then,I said OK,and pay and leave and say bye bye like we always do.After that I spoke to her normally for some 20 days like nothing happened.Then I decide to try one more time to ask her for coffee.I buy some strawberries and go to her to pay bill,and we chatting and I ask her again: So,when we will drink this coffee?
SHe: (her face is red now and just smiling)...
I wait some 5 seconds and ask her: do you come to realize? (because last time when I ask her was 20 days ago)
She: I dont,and smile to me
Then I just walk to the exit door and she said: When you eat strawberries,and smile.
Me: when I eat them?? It will be fast.....and I leave that market
Now,I dont know is there some possibility that this girl joking me around or she is just shy???? She give me constantly IOI and then when I ask her out,she respond me I DONT KNOW
Any advice??? Thanks people

Dumb games.

She's pitched a frame of 'wait and see' and you're eating it up.

Walk in there with another girl on your arm - a hot one... See what happens

Yes,that came to my mind,I have fuck buddy,she is HB8-9,tall attractive girl...
A year ago I had a girlfriend and we buy together in this store,so cashier girl knows that I am not some guy who never had women in his life..
I have 2 questions:
1.Do you think that I made mistake because I wait 20 days to ask her again?
2.After she said : when you eat strawberies... I know that she expekt that I came up to her and say: Hey,I eat them !! For me that would be weak from me,am I right or???

What I would do..


Write my number on the receipt, hand it to her and say "Alright.. How about you text me when you figure it out"

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Maybe guys you have more experience with this kind of girls,what you think is better: next her,or be direct one more time and let her know? I'm asking because it is first time that some girl tell me that she 'don't know' (2 times)when I ask her out.I'm confused to be honest.

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Yeah, I'm pretty sure we both actually told you very directly what to do...

Take your pick.

Thanks guys,I will try some of that
I noticed that most of the time when I joking with her,most time negging her,not on her look,but about job(like; you dont work at all,you not give me fresh fruit etc...but with smile ).Today she was on place where they sold meat and bread.And I asked for bread,she give it to me and asking me: do you want anything else from my place because I have percentage of what I sold today? (it was joke from her)
My answer was: I dont need anything from you,and smile (not in her way but in front of me)
Later I come back to buy something else and I ask her for that,she respond:you dont need anything from me
I told her,dont be so slow and bring me those eggs
And then I go away
So,should I be more nicer to her or to continue with this way of communication?
I also noticed in last year since I broke with my girlfriend(we were 3 years together),that I became little arrogant,I dont smile often like before.